I appreciate where you are coming from and don't want to pester you. I've heard you. I get that the scuba community doesn't want to be associated with this type of thing. And yes, I see that on eBay the sellers of rebreathers are asking at least $5K, which is outside my budget. That they want to see proof of training should not be a problem -- or how much does that one course cost? Surely under $1000? That I could afford.)
For anyone else reading, I may have said it above, but at gas suppliers like Praxair, where my friend gets his welding gas, the medical oxygen and the industrial oxygen come from the same container and manifold. Even one of the industrial gas companies has explained why that is the case. The difference is in the chain of custody of the tank. I'd buy my own new tanks and insist on getting them back after each fill. I'm good with it. If I die with $8,000 in the bank, at least my family can afford to bury me. Just think of some extreme sport that has a high likelihood of harming the athlete, and compare this to that -- I'll tank my chances on this. And I don't even snowboard or ski, or commute on a motorcycle.
Buying even a used RB and the associated training is likely going to tank your budget.
Also, instructors are going to ask why you’re getting into RB. Are you going to lie about that? Your plan has very little hope of succeeding.