Hey Ber Rabbit,
First, Congratulations!!! Flo and I wish you the best of luck. Believe me when I say that after 10 years of dating and 28 years of marriage, it is better now than when we first got married. We hope your marriage is as much fun as ours.
Second, Like LadyDiver says, the wedding doesn't have to break the bank. The wedding service can be as big or as small as you desire. The main thing is the vows you take before your family, friends and God. The rest is just icing on the cake.
Third, I am convinced that the board had something to do with his proposal. I was reading a greeting (11/05 post) about how you were tired of snooping and wanted to join the board. Now a little over a month later the question is popped. :1st: . Sounds to me like the power of this board pointed cupid in the right direction. So, cupid had a speargun, so what. It worked didn't it? Or maybe it was a combination of cupid, the high heels and wet suit. Very nice.
Good Luck and keep us posted
Burt & Flo