I feel horrible. I work in South Korea where I teach English in a University. I get a lot of vacation time and I always pop over to Thailand to go scuba diving, lay on the beach etc. I usually feel quite tired as the breaks approach and Thailand always seems so inviting. I get 4 months off a year.
Well my mother had some mini-strokes and dementia. She is quite frail at 74. My sister keeps me informed of her condition. I kept planning on going back, but as the time approaches I think of an excuse and go off to Thailand instead and think I will go on my next break in a few months time. A few months does not seem that long and my intention is always to go back.
Well this next break I had made a firm decision to go back. I have been in Korea 3 years and it has been long since seeing my mother and sisters. I have had the University position for 2 years.
I hate the looooooong 14 hour flight and have this reluctance to see my mother in such bad condition. I think I will be bored and depressed there and while I know it is my duty and I do love my mother, there is that selfish thing and reluctance to see my mother that way.
I have lived in Asia over 20 years and my times back home have been limited.
Well last week my sister e-mailed and told me my mother is very ill and that she may have only a few weeks left. I was near to the time of going back anyway and had a flight booked. When I learned she was sick I booked an earlier flight. Right now is the busiest time of year to fly out of Korea to the States and it is hard to secure a flight.
I am teaching a 2 week Intensive Business Course with another teacher and don't feel that I can just abandon it and leave the course in a mess. Mixed priorities. Anyway I figure that I would not be able to get a flight sooner anyway. I am at the end of my contract and need to finsih it to get my bonus. I will need to pay for the funeral costs so would need the money.
My sister and I have been in frequent contact and she says my mother has a fever and that the hospice workers do not think she will last much longer.
It is Monday and I finish the classes on Friday/ I have a flight booked on Sunday.
Will I ever live the guilt down-will God ever forgive me?
I know that no mother could have loved their son more than my mother loved me
Well my mother had some mini-strokes and dementia. She is quite frail at 74. My sister keeps me informed of her condition. I kept planning on going back, but as the time approaches I think of an excuse and go off to Thailand instead and think I will go on my next break in a few months time. A few months does not seem that long and my intention is always to go back.
Well this next break I had made a firm decision to go back. I have been in Korea 3 years and it has been long since seeing my mother and sisters. I have had the University position for 2 years.
I hate the looooooong 14 hour flight and have this reluctance to see my mother in such bad condition. I think I will be bored and depressed there and while I know it is my duty and I do love my mother, there is that selfish thing and reluctance to see my mother that way.
I have lived in Asia over 20 years and my times back home have been limited.
Well last week my sister e-mailed and told me my mother is very ill and that she may have only a few weeks left. I was near to the time of going back anyway and had a flight booked. When I learned she was sick I booked an earlier flight. Right now is the busiest time of year to fly out of Korea to the States and it is hard to secure a flight.
I am teaching a 2 week Intensive Business Course with another teacher and don't feel that I can just abandon it and leave the course in a mess. Mixed priorities. Anyway I figure that I would not be able to get a flight sooner anyway. I am at the end of my contract and need to finsih it to get my bonus. I will need to pay for the funeral costs so would need the money.
My sister and I have been in frequent contact and she says my mother has a fever and that the hospice workers do not think she will last much longer.
It is Monday and I finish the classes on Friday/ I have a flight booked on Sunday.
Will I ever live the guilt down-will God ever forgive me?
I know that no mother could have loved their son more than my mother loved me