The concept of ascending "too slowly" is quite interesting.
Let's see at this problem historically.
Initially there were just the US Navy tables. They were assuming that the time was starting at surface, when starting descending, and was ending at maximum depth, when starting to ascend. And an ascend rate of 18 meters/minute was the standard one. If going slower than this, the additional ascend time had to be added to the bottom time. Hence, ascending slower than 18 m/min was not dangerous, was actually safer, if this additional time was taken into account as larger bottom time. The problem was if this additional ascend time was not added to the bottom time, as someone was wrongly doing (but the US Navy manual was very clear on this point).
Then, in the seventies, some study did demonstrate that an ascend speed of 18 m/min was too large, and a new ascend speed of 10 m/min MAXIMUM was recommended. Going even lower was safer, as now the whole ascend time had to be considered part of the bottom time. So the bottom time to be considered was starting at surface, and was ending after the ascend, when reached 9m, launched the SMB, the diver was looking at his tables for calculating the length of the deco stops (no NDL to be respected, in the seventies, deco was the standard).
Again, with this approach (which was the one I was trained for in 1975, and which I followed until one year ago) there was no risk slowing down the ascend, as this was simply increasing the bottom time, and of consequence the duration of the deco stops.
Then the computers arrived, and with them it appeared evident that if the ascend speed was very slow, the deco time was increasing, so instructors started recommending to avoid too slow ascend speed. In reality, for a dive with deco, this is simply a longer dive, as it was when using the tables, and means no additional risk: simply this will cause you making longer deco stops.
The problem exploded when training agencies started to consider it safer to dive WITHIN NDL limits, and to plan the dive accordingly. If you stay at depth for the maximum time allowed for NDL, and you ascend too slowly, you exceed the NDL, and this started to be seen as "dangerous", as the new safety rule was set to always stay within NDL.
So now, suddenly, ascending slowly became a problem, and it became very important to teach new divers to ascend at the "correct" speed, as now ascending too slowly or too quickly was equally wrong.
In my opinion, this evolution makes now diving more dangerous than in the past. Divers are taught to base their diving plan on their computer, and to "ride the NDL" in such a way that they stay down as long a possible, and then they ascend "at the proper speed", following the sharp edge of NDL. They end up at surface in conditions very, very close to initial DCS symptoms, despite the "safety stop", which is too short for providing a true deco effect.
The old deco dives with tables, for a number of reasons, resulted instead systematically in a gross overestimation of the Nitrogen absorbed, and in very slow and long deco profiles, ensuring ample margin below the critical edge of DCS.
But in the end I had to surrender, and one year ago I bought my first computer (very basic and cheap). In most cases, it causes me to make more aggressive dives than those I was doing previously following the tables.
Now I can stay down longer, and make no deco. How this can be safer is something I do not understand...
I still try to stay on the safe side of what the computer says, making a longer safety stop, and possibly going very slowly from 5m to surface at the end of it. And I still continue ascending from depth much slower than 10m/min, accepting that this will reduce the time I can stay down, or that I will be forced to some deco stop before emerging.
Now back to the topic: what is correct to explain to students at their first course, and what to explain to divemasters or instructors? Do they need to know all the history?
Probably not for a beginner's course, but they should also be warned to not "ride the NDL", always keeping a robust margin before the limit which will allow to ascend at a much slower speed, still arriving at 5m with the computer signalling a significant time before the NDL...
On the other side, a Divemaster should know the whole history and the reasons for which a slower ascend need to be considered as a longer bottom time. He should also understand that a dive planned with deco is actually SAFER than a dive within the NDL, of course requiring a longer training (and certification, possibly), proper equipment and logistics, and proper planning.