So what you acctually saying Roatanman, that alot of poeple out there
are just diving so that they can brag and say that they can dive? ? If
that is the reason will they not be leathal dive buddies? ?
Maybe not.
Maybe, if your dive buddy is so enmeshed in thinking through the dive plan itself, so concentrating on following that profile- he might be quite a good addition... in a larger "team" of divers.
The guy that's staring at his gauges might be unaware of un-planned circumstances arising such as changing conditions or your distress, so in that regard, he could be a liability as a buddy-pair diver.
But more to the point of the OP. Many new divers couldn't see a yellow school bus parked atop a 15' deep coral head, even if the 4-way flashers are blinking. It takes time to relax, to let the eyes see past your SPG and all of that expensive whizbang electronic computer strapped to your wrist.
In my experience,
women (once peeled away from their well intentioned male partners), experience a dramatic upward learning curve in terms of
underwater critter spotting. Their male counterparts are often debriefing their buddies and laptops in a post dive scenario. The ladies quickly find out what the Paul Humann book is all about.
This is not to say that males are any less adept at critter spotting, it's just more likely they will immerse themselves in the technical dweebery or wreck penetration versus what I call "
Underwater Bird Watching".
This critter fixation is also known as
W.W.P.F (
Wowowpoof), aka:
warm water/pretty fish syndrome.
Whatever floats your boat.