Chocoholic
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Maybe try going out with other sets of dive buddies and take turns leading. Then no one person is responsible for all the navigation and you can share the task load. And have fun!
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h2odragon1:Listening to the dive plan then doing their own thing? Sounds like my wife! Simple wall dives at a local quarry become a chase to catch her when she decides to go out away from the wall. I dive with a computer, she does'nt; I dive with a compass, she does'nt. When she leads, we end up anywhere but where we had intended. If I lead, I end up holding her hand so she does'nt get lost or seperated.
Diving with my wife is great, but she has to remember PLAN YOUR DIVE, DIVE YOUR PLAN!!!!
A dive slate might help for communication. Not only can you have much clearer communication at depth, but you can also use it to your advantage by writing slowly. That forces your buddy to just wait, breathe and calm down while you write.alicatfish:what should I have done differently?