Lots of good feedback. I will chime in and say that for your first time to Bonaire, the Den Laman Condos
Home - Den Laman and Hamlet Oasis
Accomodation Bonaire Apartments: Holiday Rentals, Diving Bonaire Vacation Home options, already recommended, would be the direction I'd encourage you to consider since you want a waterfront/house reef location for two. I have done both and and I have done VRBO and I have done AirBNB. Here is my 2 cents should you find yourself trying to decide to between Hamlet and Den Laman:
Hamlet Oasis:
$900- for a 1 bedroom unit- no meals included- all meals on own. This is the room cost- not per person cost
$91- Room Tax for the week
$360- for 2 person unlimited dive package with Dive Friends (will need to book independently of the accommodations)
$271- for Rental truck for the week with Avis (will need to book independently of the accommodations)
Total cost $1622
Den Laman:
$2216- This is all in for 2 people in a 1 bedroom condo and includes breakfast each morning. You book through them and they handle everything. They will reserve your Avis pickup, they will book your dive package (also with Dive Friends)
Other stuff: Hamlet Oasis has a pool, if that is important to you. I never used it. Den Laman is exceedingly nicer and more comfortable. Their photos on the website are accurate. Clean, modern. Diving from Den Laman is considerably easier if you plan to do
lots of house reef diving (Bari Reef). You have a pier and a couple of steps to get in and out of the water. Much easier entry and exit than the house reef at hamlet (Cliff dive Site). Rinse tanks and secure storage area for your gear are extremely convenient. Both locations have the Dive Friends shops on site, but at Den Laman, you will have 24/7 access to tanks. At Hamlet Oasis, you will need to make sure you get some tanks from one of the 7 shops on the island before closing, if you want to do a night or dawn dive. You could knock $300-$400 off of the Den Laman cost if you opted for a studio instead of a 1 bedroom. Both locations are great and just down the street from one another, so no big difference there. However, a short stroll across the parking lot at Den Laman brings you to Between 2 Buns. One of the best restaurant/cafe's/bakeries on the island. Great for lunch on site or buy some sandwiches to go and have during a surface interval. There is also a Surinamese restaurant and ice cream place 2 doors down from Between2Buns and they sell some tremendous Belgian Beers. Neither place is a "resort" and will give you that sense of "being on your own" that you desire. Although Den Laman does it with some additional niceties. Hope some of that helps.
If you haven't yet, be sure to read the report from
@scubadada - it is one of the most recent, if not most recent post and thorough on staying at and diving from Den Laman-
Den Laman/Dive Friends Bonaire, December 3-14, 2017