If I do add trim weights, do I need to split the 2lbs left and right (1+1) or can I put a 2lb right by the plate on 1 side? I'm unsure if where I am going will have 1lb weights.
I also test-drove my BP&W without weight in the pool, and I was diving with 10 lbs on my last tropical vacation (Alu plate). Much to my surprise -- even though I prefer a couple of pounds over the "ideally perfect SB-approved" weight, that was more than I expected. So I strongly suspect you might need more than 2 1-pound weights.
I ended up putting weight pouches on shoulder straps. They do get in the way a little bit but aren't a major hindrance.