2. You've obviously never dived with a spouse ... the effects of "relationship" often increase proportional to depth ...
... Bob (Grateful Diver)
Wrong! :scorned:
But maybe I just haven't dived enough with my husband to have gotten there . . .
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2. You've obviously never dived with a spouse ... the effects of "relationship" often increase proportional to depth ...
... Bob (Grateful Diver)
You had it right the first time. The real takeaway is what you do... no matter how complacent or mad or happy or anal or distracted or furious or glad or sad you are, making a good plan in the first place, making all the hard decisions on the surface before ever getting into the water, and then sticking by those plans underwater is as important to Scuba safety as "never hold your breath." The "complacent" diver who makes and follows a good plan is far less likely to have a mishap than the "non-complacent" diver who has no plan or ignores the one he does have....So, what's the REAL takeaway? If you're a newb like me, it reinforces "Plan your dive, and dive your plan." If you have hundreds and hundreds of dives, the lesson is "Complacency gets you into trouble."...
Nope. I use my computer to keep me safe, not just legal. I like to stay in low yellow at most generally, always exit in green if possible.Do you push every last second out of your computer and ride the thin line of NDL right to the boat?
I survived that stage, barely - but nope.Are you a thrill seeker and occasionally put your watch into Deco, but manage to clear it by the time you get on the boat?
If you have good air consumption, you'll need some Nitrox tanks in the day, at least one. I know the scene.4th dive of the day in Cozumel
By watches, I suppose you mean computers? My bud and I have a different approach: we compare often and never are bothered by being asked. An approach I'd recommend.so 2 minutes, where is my wife. she has found one of her favorite sea creatures, a sting ray in the sand, so she is slowly swimming to it about 15ft down and 30 ft away heading down a sand slope. hmmm well my watch is bitching, so hers must be screaming..... I am the anal one, I am always pointing to my watch and she looks at hers sees that we have 5 minutes or whatever and gets mad at me for messing with her mojo. we have done this a lot so I know she is going to be pissed if i interrupt her time with her new friend to point to our watches. but no choice she is headed for trouble, and at that point I did not know how much.
So if you are saying this is an example of how not to dive, I'll agree. And I like to carry enough weight that I can stay down or get back down quickly regardless. Shooting a sausage in Coz helps but sometimes they get run over too.I did some calculations, based on air, and predicted deco time, we would have enough air if we went into a small amount of deco at this point.***
So I swim after her, take one and a half minutes of video of her playing with the ray and then grab her arm and show her, her watch, and I get a look at it myself, 14 minutes of deco, OH ##$^^$*
The wording I use is "without repercussion." And certainly "no questions asked" applies under water.... no questions asked...
I hope this will stimulate some adult conversation and not a bunch of pointing out my mistakes.
The wording I use is "without repercussion."
And certainly "no questions asked" applies under water.
However, once on dry land or the boat I am certainly going to find out (or, if it's I who called the dive, tell about) what caused the abort, and explore ways to avoid the problem in the future. The key is maturity - the ability to honestly evaluate what happened and how to avoid it without being "hurt" or "hurtful."
Rick
It is what you do that counts. That is why real mishap analysis examines actions, identifies actions that led to injury or death, and proposes actions that will prevent injury or death in the future. State of mind isn't unimportant, but it isn't a cause. The cause is the action taken.
I've been trying for decades: Fail!That sounds a bit nicer doesn't it. More velvet glove, less iron fist. I'm still working on that. :blinking:
And the final lesson here is that weighting yourself to be neutral at 15 feet with 500 psi means you will be light shallower than that, or with less gas; one or two extra pounds is not perfect weighting but makes stressful situations a lot easier to manage.