Okay , update from visit to ENT specialist today , finally after 3 months of waiting .
So i had another hearing test which came back as 20% in left ear ( the damadged one ) and 90% in right ear ( reasonably normal ) . The specialist said he would try 2 treatments today and we would evaluate if they worked.
Firsly he totally cleaned out my outer ear of any wax using drops and a suction device which literally felt like it was sucking out my eyeball through my ear lol , but he explained he was not even close to my eardrum , he then checked my eardrum carefully for any small tears or holes and said it was fine no damage to that.
Secondly he had an electronic device which he inserted into my left nostril and i had to hold my right nostril while he activated it and it would push air through my nose and i had to swallow as the same time to get the air to flow through my eustachian tubes into my midle ear . This took some practice but he was a really patient guy...
Well....after about 10 goes i got the hang of it and i couldn't believe what happened .There was a loud crackling popping noise inside my ear ( loud to me obviously not to him ) and i felt a load of gunk and fluid run down my throat and i said to him i think it worked.
He stopped the process and we waited about 10 minutes as my ear was preety sure and the tinnitus had dissapeared...and i could hear !!!! i just can't believe it , my hearing was like super sensitive everything seemed really loud in that ear apparently he said it was common as that ear has been struggling for input for months and it will setle down in a few days..
I can't begin to explain the relief i feel not from the deafness part but from the tinnitus relief , i am so happy i had a good ENT who had experience in this treatment...it's now 6 hours later and my ear isn;t sore , i can hear fantastically and no ringing..
So in all it's taken 5 months to get a resolution , not the best i know but finally i got here..
I rang the wife and she was chuffed to bits and i said the only downside now is i will be able to hear you nagging again
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Big thank you to all those who posted info and advice you guys are great !