In order to remove your inflator valve, you could make jigs out of a good grade of plywood or just use 2 great big pipe wrenches. Eventually it'll either come off and be serviceable, or it'll come off broken and you'll have to spend $40 for a new one.
Michael
I use the following tool to help unscrew the back of the valves in my drysuit. It is a park bottom bracket pin spanner. I have the makings of a bike shop and ski shop in the garage so I had this on hand already but they are not very expensive if you need to purchase one:
I believe one is supposed to press the purge/inflate button in when unscrewing/screwing the valves otherwise the inner workings can sustain irreparable damage.
-Z