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Just curious. How many of us have had their diving interrupted by kids/life and if so where did you fall in love with it again. I started in 1978 and wife in 1983. We did some dive trips but then had our son. We didn't get to dive for 14 years (did the kid friendly vacations, Disney loved us). One evening we were out eating and realized we hadn't gone on a vacation just for us in what felt like forever (also helped that we were particularly p/o'd with our son and his teenage attitude) so we decided to dump him with the grandparents and take an adult trip to Jamaica. We choose a resort that was fun and had diving. Diving in Jamaica sucked but the resort was a blast and we fell back in love. We ended up one year in Belieze, after the 1st dive we got back on the boat grinning from ear to.ear and we both said " this is what diving is all about!". Since then we take 3 dedicated dive trips at year and aim for a min of 50 dives a year (we are warm water snobs). For our 30th anniversary we want to go to raja ampat or wakatobi. So do you have a diving story? Love to hear other people' experiences. Tanks! Bill and DeeDee
 
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Catalina Island, Casino Point, December, the waves are big and the water was cold. I wasn't having a fun dive. The coming storm had reduced the visibility and the fading sun had plunged the whole dive site into a grayish haze. At the end of the dive those large waves made for a punishing escape up the stairs to dry land. The next day I got a call that the dive boat was not going out due to heavy seas predicted for that afternoon and the next day didn't look very promising either. That was my last dive trip before I took a break from scuba diving to focus on other expensive hobbies.

I had completed PADI Rescue a couple of years before and hadn't been interested in taking any additional classes so my diving had plateaued. In the first three years of certification I had steadily progressed each year from Open Water, Advanced and finally Rescue, after that I turned my focus to taking trips and trying to dive as much as I could. When I say as much as I could I am pushing it because I live in Southern New Mexico. The closest diving for me was about 4 hours away so every other month I was taking a trip somewhere either locally or a couple times a year to somewhere on the ocean. My local dive shop was good at getting trips going to various locations, some much more tropical than others. Due to the economy putting a strain on everyone's discretionary spending it seemed that more trips were getting canceled due to lack of interest than were actually going. So I did what I could doing trips on my own to various lakes in New Mexico, Montego Bay and Catalina Island. They were good trips but I was getting bored of doing the same types of dives usually alone but on occasion I got to dive with some really good people so after my trip to Catalina I decided to focus on some of my other interests.

Almost four years later I got a call from my sister telling me about a trip she was planning to Hawaii. She was wanting to dive while she was there. She has been certified for about seven years but to my knowledge has never been diving with out me so I wasn't surprised when she asked me “Do you want to go diving and make sure I remember how before my trip”. I had been thinking about dusting off my fins but I had not done much other than shuffle gear around every time I had to get something stored in my office closet. Our conversation made me decide that it was time to go diving again so I drug out my gear which had been stored for longer than I wanted to admit and started to plan a refresher trip. I quickly found out that the dive shop we had both certified with had closed and the owners were pursuing other business ventures. A new shop had been formed by some of the instructors and staff from the old shop. The new shop had tanks and could provide us with air so we were in business. My sister decided that since we were both getting back into the game again she wanted to go back to Balmorhea State Park, which by West Texas standards is open water. It is an artesian spring surrounded by a concrete pool wall and deck built by the Civilian Conservation Corps back in the 30s. It is a very popular training site for open water certifications for the region. It is where both of us got our open water certifications, it is also a place I have long ago decided not to go back to. I just seem to end up back there. So the weekend is chosen and we go back, back to Balmorhea all 20’ max depth of it. It is open water I think, just barely; but it is wet and a good way to ease back into the sport in controlled pool like conditions. Guess what, I'm hooked again; I remembered how much fun I have on these dive trips and what a freeing experience it is to float weightlessly with the fish.

After I got back from Balmorhea I started to get back into diving in a big way. I have always enjoyed reading books and novels about the sea, diving, and exotic lands so as I was looking at my bookshelf I came across my copy of Shadow Divers by Robert Kurson which for those who haven't read it follows John Chatterton, Richie Kohler and a small group of divers who risk their lives trying to identify a sunken German U-boat off the coast of New Jersey. The first time I read the book was during a trip to Mexico for my Advanced Open Water class and my reaction was one of I can't believe these people would take such risks in their diving. At that time the story inspired me to be very cautious and methodical in my diving to not push past my limits and to do everything I could not to be a dive accident statistic. As I reread the story this time it inspired me to expand my training and extend my own limits so that I may one day visit the U869 and the SS Andrea Doria. Both wrecks lie in over 200 feet of cold murky Atlantic water. So I decided that Tec diving sounded less reckless and was something I wanted to give a go. However my LDS don’t offer any Tec training or support so I would end up traveling to another dive center to complete my training.
 
No interruption. Wife doesn't dive. I do. No problems ever.
 
2004 - Did Discover Scuba on a cruise. Was scuba diving "on the surface", was too scared to descend. :giggle: Went home and started Open Water course anyway. Freaked out in the confined water dives at the pool and never completed the open water certification dives. STRIKE 1

2008 - Went to Cozumel specifically to get re-acquainted with scuba diving again. Did 1 Discover Scuba with one shop and hated the instructor. Found another instructor to do yet another Discover Scuba and really liked him, but came down with Montezuma's Revenge for the remainder of the trip and had to abandon all the scuba plans. :facepalm:STRIKE 2

2012 - Rallied a bunch of buddies (6 of us) and we did the Open Water course locally. Had no trouble this time with the pool. I actually took swimming lessons beforehand to boost my confidence and it worked! Four of us went on a cruise and got certified. Then I got leukemia and needed a stem cell transplant...:cry: :vomit: STRIKE 3

2015
- Finally recovered and am back diving. It took me over 10 years to finally log 20 dives. :yeahbaby:And I don't want it to stop!
 
I got certified in 1998. Spent the next several Summers diving in local quarries increasing my training and abilities. Progressed all the way through Dive Master. But as the kids grew, the diving slowed down. I managed an occasional dive on vacation, but not much else.

I tried to get my kids into diving, but the oldest was never interested. Middle child tried it, but is not really into it.

Then the youngest tried a discover dive in 2015 while,we vacationed in Mexico. She got certified this year as a Jr. diver. We dive together several times on vacation this year. And when I mentioned to my wife, I'd like to dive during fall break, the youngest lit up and want to know if she could go too!

I think I have a full time dive buddy now and will be doing a LOT more diving in the future.
 
I got certified in 2003 or so. Did some diving, then but spent a bunch of money on other expensive hobbies. Then I got diagnosed with sleep apnea, which has progressed into pulmonary hypertension. So after 5 years CTs and other tests showed this had vanished so I decided to get back into it. I'd lost a bunch of weight so needed new gear. Choose kind-of poorly, but did another trip on the Spree anyhow. After freezing my ass off I decided to get a dry suit.

Then I decided to try a GUE fundamentals class and was kind of astonished at how stable and controlled the instructor was in the water, it was like she was suspended on wires.
 
YMCA certified in Illinois back in 1979 while in high school. Not many opportunities came along, not much money and my college years had plenty of distractions and were way too fun so fell out of diving. Recertified in OW and AOW and got back in to diving around six years ago after:
1. kids got older
2. making decent $
3. able to buy gear (see #2)
4. had available time (summers free)
5. live on the coast of Maine.
 
Certified with then-spouse in 1998 in anticipation of an upcoming trip to Australia. Wife didn't care for diving too much--she was overweight and hated the wetsuit--so I didn't do much diving, either. We divorced in 2000. I gradually got back into diving, dating women who dived, the last of whom became my dive buddy for life. Our wedding was on Curacao, and the honeymoon on Bonaire. Nowadays it seems like we spend all our time and money on diving or at least on travel in which some diving will be involved.
 
I got certified in the mid 80s. I dove avidly for almost 20 years and it was much more than a hobby; it really was a part of me as a person. Once I started graduate school, I found that the demands forced me to dive less. After grad school, my career demanded even more and then I lost my dive buddy and one of my best friends. The experiences I had with my dive buddy also were an intricate part of the experience; losing him was devastating. I made the decision to hang up my fins permanently and focus on my career. Fast forward 10 years and I got the opportunity to dive the Great Barrier Reef on a work-related trip to Australia. It was a great experience and reminded me that an important part of my life was missing...I jumped back in with both feet!
 
1995 - Naui OW course taken, never completed the open water dives. Wasn't old enough to drive, no family members dove, and the closest dive site was 90 minutes away in Monterey (chilly). Interest fizzled.

2016 - Wife and coworkers signed up for PADI OW and I joined the group. Had a blast diving open water in Socal where the water temps in Laguna and Catalina were 72F+ all month. Interest was reignited, bought gear for both my wife and myself immediately after certification.

Better late than never.
 

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