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However, prior to reading about and discussing this incident here, I can picture myself leaving my buddy to try to get the DM's attention to let them know we were aborting dive. Now, having read this thread and thought about it, I will stick with my buddy no matter what, even if it meant I didn't get to notify the DM. Just as the DM's first responsibility is to the group, my first responsibility is to my buddy. If I have to choose between my buddy and the DM, I will choose my buddy.
Congratulations! You've just eliminated a whole raft of potentially fatal problems for both you and your buddy!
I know people are upset by these concepts, but sometimes learning is painful. If a small pile of possibly-uncomfortable messages on the internet can save lives, they're well worth it.
I wish I'd read these before following my Cozumel DMs on dives I wasn't remotely qualified for. The most valuable thing I've learned over the years is when to say "no."
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