Please explain why chronic, casual, consensual air sharing is a bad thing? People looking on, as the OP was, do not have a clear idea of what is happening. I'm not talking about OOA. The OP assumed that the diver receiving air was OOA, simply because they were sharing air. I am confident, from my experience doing this, that the person was not out of air. They simply used air faster than others in their group and extended the group's dive by sharing. We have a buddy that we have done this with for years. Bigger tanks? Yeah, we bring 120's while we dive 80's. This buddy, very simply, was an air hog. My wife doesn't breath underwater. When the divemasters are at minimums she commonly has 12-1400 lb left. I'm not as good as her but we both commonly run the DM's out of air. So our buddy often spent part of his dive on my wife's regulator. Sometimes on mine. Not because he was OOA. But because we knew he would get low on air and need to go up before us. We got used to telling new DM's that we might do this because it gives them wide eyes if they don't know what is going on. We don't bother telling everybody else on the boat. I fail to see the danger in this but would be happy if someone explained it to me. I suspect that any of the three of us is better at sharing air than someone who doesn't do this often.
For the record, our air hog friend has improved a lot over the years and with a larger tank can now hold his own.