Thanks to everyone for their input. This has made me want to be a better diver and more aware of where the DM and the rest of the group is. However, this discussion also has made me go back and review the video I took of the turtle. My apologies for not reviewing the video more closely earlier to see the length, but the truth is that in light of some of the comments I was feeling a bit guilty about my conduct and abilities as a diver. The video was 1 minute 12 seconds long and at the end of the video the turtle swam away, so that would have been when I looked up to see where the group was (minus the two others that were still with me). So, say it took me another few seconds, heck maybe almost another minute, to get in position and start filming (doubtful). I don't think that stopping for two minutes to film a turtle on a one hour dive is out of bounds. On a dive where there is little current and mostly sand and small coral outcroppings? Is it really too much to ask of a DM in Cozumel to maybe stay within eyesight distance for one minute and 12 seconds? And if there is an urgent need to move on, OK he carries a "noisemaker". He can let me know he is moving on, but in reality there was no urgent need here.
You might reconsider your way of looking at things. It is not anybody's job to watch you, keep tabs on you, or wait for you. It is your responsibility to stay alert, be aware, and keep up - or make other arrangements and hire a private dive guide. At least that's my opinion.
It's like enrolling in a class at college. You expect the teacher to provide expertise, a good curriculum, and a positive learning environment and to advise you if you have questions - but you don't expect him to follow or watch you, keep checking to make sure that you reading the assignments, holding back the rest of the class so that you can catch up, or giving you special treatment if you find the course work too hard. You have responsibility for your own learning and success or failure as a student. And if that is not a comfortable learning style for you, that's fine - hire a private tutor.
Sure, when you are diving with a DM you can expect him to be the most expert individual and look to him for guidance about the site and assistance in an emergency. But under normal circumstances the DM has a lot of things to do - including finding cool stuff to show people and trying to make sure that the entire group has a good dive. That includes the "I'm in a hurry guy" that's racing ahead, and the "photo geek" that's lagging behind, and the newbie that's stuck on his arm like a remora - it seems like a hard job.
One time we did a drift diving liveaboard trip in the Sea of Cortez and the current was quite strong and we were being chased by storms and the water was kind of rough for most of the trip. The dive crew didn't even try to keep us together in a group and it wasn't expected. The divers went into the water as buddy pairs. Sometimes a dive master was in the water and you could hang around with him if you wanted to - but it was not required.
Each pair did what they wished and came up when they were ready to do so. On the surface you inflated a safety sausage and waited for a panga (inflatable boat) to come and pick you up. If I had expected the DM to watch me, keep tabs on me, and keep me moving forward - I'd still be floating out there somewhere!
From now on you should just make sure that you always dive with your wife/buddy so that she can keep an eye on you and hurry you whenever you get "lost in space" doing photography.
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