Deleted, I was going to tell a "clueless diver that I once met" story but that is not the purpose of this thread.
Please do tell, or even start a thread with that heading. I might “get a clue” from hearing other people’s stories, as that is part of “NOT learning the hard way.”
Okay, but I am sure that you are already much more informed and proficient than these folks!
Many years ago we went to a Club Med Resort for a dive vacation. I understand that the dive ops have changed a lot at Club Meds since then but we've never been tempted to do another CM trip to find out if they have improved. The dive boats were cattle boats that were full of inexperienced divers proudly carrying Club Med C-Cards. Once upon a time they had done some minimal training and a check-out dive at a Club Med and now they enjoyed traveling to CM resorts to dive, bragging about how they "never had to do any expensive and difficult dive training" and they could still dive at CM resorts all over the world.
After our last dive I mentioned to a Club Med C-Card diver (who told me she was a Doctor) that it was our last dive because we would be flying home soon. She looked at me in surprise and said "What has flying home have to do with it being your last dive?!" I answered that "we have to wait 18 to 24 hours before flying to give our bodies time to eliminate the excess nitrogen." She just looked at me blankly and said "Nitrogen, what nitrogen?" So I just told her "If you plan to keep diving, do yourself a favor and take a real training course and get certified, you might live longer!" I wonder if she ever took my advice.
On another trip in the Bahamas I overheard a guy that was signed up to go on the same boat talking on the phone and making air reservations to fly home that same afternoon. He was trying to figure out how much time he would have after the 2-tank morning dive to pack, grab his stuff, and get to the airport. I admit that I was a snitch and told the dive shop manager about it. He talked to the guy and confirmed that he was indeed planning to fly back to the US that very afternoon. The diver was stunned when the manager told him that he wouldn't be able to dive after all. He became furious and stormed out of the place yelling and I'm betting that he went directly to another dive shop, signed up to dive and kept quiet about his flight plans.
I also once met a divemaster in Egypt that had gotten a ceiling alarm on his computer but he was running low on air, so he left his computer sitting on a rock at depth to finish his safety stop for him. Then he geared up with a fresh tank and went back down later to retrieve his computer. He said that he "didn't want to get locked out of his computer" and that his "computer was over-sensitive and he knew that he would be okay." Maybe he was right, but I don't think that he was setting a good example for others.
And then there was the couple that we met in Cozumel (I think) that didn't want to spend money on 2 computers so they just dived with one and figured it would be okay as long as they stayed fairly close to each other during the dive.
But my all-time favorite, that I've mentioned on SB before, was the ditzy woman in Cayman that went to 150 feet on Nitrox and couldn't figure out why her computer was screaming at her. The dive master caught her and stayed with her and got her back safe. She was livid when the divemaster told her that her diving was over for the rest of the trip. She grabbed her gear and stormed away in a huff and I'm betting that he didn't even get a tip after all his efforts.
We are just recreational vacation divers, and I have made some dumb mistakes in the past myself and will probably make some more in the future. Some of our equipment is old (but well-maintained) but I'll bet that some younger divers laugh at us a little, so I don't mean to sound all superior or sanctimonious. We're not "hotshot divers" at all, but these folks really surprised (and scared) me with their cluelessness!
I should also add that I have met many, many more good divers than clueless divers, but we have been diving for a long time so we have come across a few "memorable gems" along the way.