MikeFerrara:
Being told something in passing or shown and trying something once isn't always the same as being taught. We forget lots of things but we tend to remember things that were really taught.
IMO, this is what's wrong with a class that includes only a couple of hours in-water time and home study that's supposed to pass for classroom. It's like having the theory or realativity rattled off to you in 5 minutes. You hear it and if you're sharp enough you can recite it back but you don't understand the implications of the individual pieces therefor you can't apply it.
May as well just skip it for all the good it does you.
The Navy took great care to teach me the theory of relativity for some mysterious reason. It took more than five minutes to demonstrate where it had a practical application for what I was doing... measuring quantitative energy released when the binding engery required to hold two smaller nuclei together vs. the one large Uranium nucleus.
Back to the the topic....
I agree with Bob's assessment. While gear plays a part in being a DIR diver (which I am not), it plays a lesser part in being a SAFE diver.
A "standard" rec. rig can be very safe if dove conservatively. Heck, many "techies" dove rigs that I would consider unsafe for years and lived to tell the tale of dives on the Doria. How many years did it take before an alternate second stage became common practice instead of buddy breathing?
My point, diving is changing all of the time. What may be DIR today may not be in ten years. What is considered extremely safe today may be tomorrow's "cowboy".
At this time, what really matters? Exceptional buoyancy control, good situational/buddy awareness, NO DANGLIES (see previous), a calm head, and knowledge of some deco theory (no 60 ft./min ascents like the bad old days). Diving within the limits of the diver's training/experience is a must as well.
Most likely a diver with all of the above will be a "safe" diver (as has been pointed out, no diving is perfectly safe). That alone will not make them a DIR diver as I don't standardization of systems/gases mentioned. If the diver is operating in the above parameters, his/her gear may not be a BP/W with a bungee necklace back-up and he/she may plan his deco (safety stops) a little differently based on a slightly different deco model. That doesn't make them unsafe in my mind.
Just my 2 psi. If you don't like, you won't be inhaling.