Hi Folks,
As a T5/T6 paraplegic diver maybe I have a right of reply here.
I'm a Brit who visits the States fairly regularly ( to ski or just to visit) and I dont get too worked up about the terminology that you all use, because by and large I find that your attitude is right. I can live with handicapped parking, or disabled facilities, because YOU PROVIDE THEM, and defend their proper use.
I do have a personal aversion to the word 'cripple' , unless I am using it about myself, and think that 'spazmo' , 'gimp' , ' cabbage' etc. are best left as luxuries for me to employ about myself, but I have to reassure you that in my annual visit to Colorado I am treated as a complete equal most of the time (especially when getting out my wallet ha ha) except when people go out of their way to show me an extra bit of that good old American courtesy that I wish we taught our kids in the UK. On the slopes I just get an extra dose of friendliness, and sometimes think I must have a sign over my head that says " Give this man a smile".
You could close this thread down for me if you are all worrying about the PC thing, take it from me you have nothing much to worry about in the US.
As for the diving, well the same thing applies over in Egypt, friendly, helpful, if I wanted I could probably be carried to the boat shoulder high, those Egyptian crews are happy to pull me out of the water like I was a prize tuna with a grin and a hand with the kit.
By the Way, I've been pushing myself around for 25 years now, so arguably I DO know what I'm on about.
If you want to take something on board, it would be for those of you who deep down feel that you don't want a cripple to undermine the butchness of your macho hobby to take a hard look at yourself - what are you scared of ? Your weiner size ?