brssmnky
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I'll just say this again, but in real big letters... if you use a wheelchair, are Deaf, Visually Impaired, whatever, I'M NOT TELLING ANYONE WHAT TO CALL YOURSELF. My comments are directed more towards the people who are non-disabled and interact in this forum. Why do you think this forum is "divers with disabilities" and not "handicaps only" or whatever? The wonderful people who run Scubaboard (and by the way, Kudos for this new form, I think it's awesome) probably checked with advocacy groups and they told them, this is what it needs to be. For me, it's a matter of dignity. The word handicapped paints a picture to many people of some poor wreched sould on the corner of the street begging for money. Oh, let's pitty him. Seriously ask a bunch of non-disabled people what they think of when you say "handicapped." I gaurantee most will tell you a wheelchair. Notice there's no person in that wheelchair.
Does anyone (out loud & in public anyway) still call different racial minority groups the same offensive words they've been called in the past. Did these groups say, "I don't care what you call me, as long as I can get equality." No, because they knew that you can't hope to be viewed as equal until you take away the negative words associated with your minority group. I am Keith first, and many other things before I am a person with a disability. But when you get to that distinction, I would prefer to be a person who, oh, by the way, also has a disability. Lord knows I've referred to myself as a gimp on several occasions, but that's very different from someone else calling me that.
And yes, I would love to see every stair disapear and be replaced with ramps. Part of what the organization where I work does is build ramps on homes for people who can't afford it. There's a 1 year waiting list for people who are confined, yes confined, to their homes. This is one of many underfunded programs. Maybe it would be more funded if our metro government thought more along the lines of this is the right thing to do for a person, who oh by the way has a disability... Instead of well, we can only give so many handouts to those handicapped. Yes it's a small distinction in words, but it may make a big difference.
That's my two cents, and I hope this didn't have an angry tone to it because that's not how I typed it and not how I mean it to come across.
Does anyone (out loud & in public anyway) still call different racial minority groups the same offensive words they've been called in the past. Did these groups say, "I don't care what you call me, as long as I can get equality." No, because they knew that you can't hope to be viewed as equal until you take away the negative words associated with your minority group. I am Keith first, and many other things before I am a person with a disability. But when you get to that distinction, I would prefer to be a person who, oh, by the way, also has a disability. Lord knows I've referred to myself as a gimp on several occasions, but that's very different from someone else calling me that.
And yes, I would love to see every stair disapear and be replaced with ramps. Part of what the organization where I work does is build ramps on homes for people who can't afford it. There's a 1 year waiting list for people who are confined, yes confined, to their homes. This is one of many underfunded programs. Maybe it would be more funded if our metro government thought more along the lines of this is the right thing to do for a person, who oh by the way has a disability... Instead of well, we can only give so many handouts to those handicapped. Yes it's a small distinction in words, but it may make a big difference.
That's my two cents, and I hope this didn't have an angry tone to it because that's not how I typed it and not how I mean it to come across.