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Yes, I found it knee-jerk and snide. If that's not what you had in mind then let others be the judge of how it comes across.
See ... snide. Say whats on your mind rather than implying it. My expectations were along the line of what I got from Peter."It is also very easy to see what you want to see in a response rather than what the sender is trying to convey."
I always give folks the benefit of the doubt. I did in that string. But that changed in the end when turned out that your "helpfulness" was not only (in my opinion) knee jerk and snide, but (objectively) dead wrong.It is MUCH easier to have some of these discussions face to face, but when you can't I have found it's often better to try and believe that a poster is being helpful first, and only then decide that they are being snide/thoughtless if I am proved wrong about the helpful bit.