Here's how that "positioning" thing seems to me.
Your round regulator has a diaphragm in it. So does your chest. When the regulator diaphragm and the one in your chest are at the same depth in the water column, there is no depth pressure variance between either and the breathing effort is as neutral as that regulator can be. (Some breathe harder than others; DA vs RAM, for example.)
When the regulator diaphragm is deeper than your diaphragm, the depth pressure on it will be greater than on you so it will flow more freely.
In contrast, when the regulator diaphragm is shallower than your diaphragm, the depth pressure will be greater on you than it is on the regulator and this will make breathing more difficult.
For example: swimming prone with the tank above me, it's usually a little harder to breathe than if I roll over and swim inverted on my back; but that's characteristic of most/all round regs and the DH diver learns to deal with it.
If I'm standing vertical in the watercolumn and it's hard to breathe, shifting the tank harness down to bring the regulator deeper (more aligned with my lungs and diaphragm) relieves that problem.
Hose clearing and buddy breathing procedures are different for DH regs than they are for the conventional octopus rig. Needs special training there.
Since you're new to this, my unsolicited pro bono advice would be to not jump into buying your first round regulator too quickly. Dive some first and get to understand how they work. If possible, connect with some divers who use this kind of thing and see if you can get them to break you in on their gear. There's actual double hose instruction available, too.
Good luck.