TrimixToo
Contributor
Maybe the technical diving culture is different. But if I see something, I say something, as diplomatically as the situation permits, but I make certain I say it. The stakes are too high not to speak up. That said, I very rarely need to say anything. And, when someone says something to me, I take it seriously. That, too, is rare, for which I'm thankful.
Some people get upset when you speak up. I truly do not care. I have yet to do a recovery, and I don't want to. And I want to know if I am needlessly taking risks I should manage or causing any risk to others. Those I dive with feel the same way. Nobody gets angry, even if they have to explain why the feedback, while welcome, was not needed.
Perhaps the most memorable time I spoke up was upon seeing someone with an incredibly red face, complete with bulging veins, who was charging into the water. His neck seal was *visibly* far too tight, making the skin bulge above the seal on his neck. He was not happy I spoke up, but I had to try to dissuade him from diving until he'd trimmed the seal. He went in anyway, thinking unkind thoughts, I'm sure, and nothing bad happened, but how would I have felt if he'd drowned? (See Carotid sinus - Wikipedia) That line from Cool Hand Luke comes to mind: "Some people, you just can't reach."
My advice, worth what you paid for it, is speak up if you think it's warranted. If you're not sure it's a problem, pose it as a question. But sitting idly by can get people hurt. Don't do that.
(Where did that soapbox come from?)
Some people get upset when you speak up. I truly do not care. I have yet to do a recovery, and I don't want to. And I want to know if I am needlessly taking risks I should manage or causing any risk to others. Those I dive with feel the same way. Nobody gets angry, even if they have to explain why the feedback, while welcome, was not needed.
Perhaps the most memorable time I spoke up was upon seeing someone with an incredibly red face, complete with bulging veins, who was charging into the water. His neck seal was *visibly* far too tight, making the skin bulge above the seal on his neck. He was not happy I spoke up, but I had to try to dissuade him from diving until he'd trimmed the seal. He went in anyway, thinking unkind thoughts, I'm sure, and nothing bad happened, but how would I have felt if he'd drowned? (See Carotid sinus - Wikipedia) That line from Cool Hand Luke comes to mind: "Some people, you just can't reach."
My advice, worth what you paid for it, is speak up if you think it's warranted. If you're not sure it's a problem, pose it as a question. But sitting idly by can get people hurt. Don't do that.
(Where did that soapbox come from?)