Again sorry for sounding harsh.
Our shop teaches everyone not to trust anyone with your safety. Question the instructor, they are human, period. When we went ice diving an instructor clipped me onto the line, I then double checked that they did it right, its my life. They even tell people, "check your own line, even if we do it".
When plaining a dive, every member of the team plains it on there own. If everyone agrees we dive, if someone gets a different answer we talk about why and as a group make the choice to dive or not. Any one member can thumb the dive.
By having an instructor, DM, or buddy plan a dive for you is only teaching you how to dive wrong. When we took our AOW our instructor told us to plan the dive. They then reviewed our plan and agreed or helped correct us. They then did the dive with us and made sure we dove the plan. If we started to get away from the plan they would remind us and get us back on track. After the dive there was a indepth debreif on the dive and a review of the plan and actions took on the dive.
Learning from mistakes is a very good thing. That is how almost everything in this modern age has been learned. However, mistakes like this don't need to be made at this time. Everyone is told to plan there own dive and dive there own computer or depth gauge/bottom timer. I was told way back in my basics class to get DAN insurance and if I get hurt or even suspect, call DAN.
If you where not trained like this I guess the agency's need to revisit standards and practices.
And again, I'm happy that you did not get severly injuried, and thank you for sharing.