mcohen1021
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Good lord, your DM sounds incompetent... Who is that so I make sure I never dive with him?
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I will disagree with this statement. Despite the current societal push back on victim blaming, very often the victim does deserve to wear part of the blame.
I will again disagree. You started out ok by saying "In general, every diver is responsible for their own dive."I'm going to disagree with your statement. In general, every diver is responsible for their own dive. However...
1. In Coz, dives must be led by a DM. The OP used good judgment in hiring a private DM that was supposed to be attentive to just the OP and his wife.
2. The OP listened to, and actively participated in, the dive planning.
3. The OP did his best to communicate with the DM during the dive.
If the OP is guilty of anything it is failing to ask the DM during the dive briefing "And what should I do if you completely ignore me and my wife underwater and you fail to follow the dive plan that we have just agreed to?"
But... the OP probably (and reasonably) assumed that asking the DM this question would have been as relevant as asking what he should do if aliens abducted the DM mid-dive. That is, who would even think a DM ditching the dive plan and his divers would be a reasonable consideration?
The OP did everything reasonable, within his training (he was essentially doing a refresher dive) and within the expectations of the DM he hired. I'm going to put at least 99% of the poor decision making in this incident on the DM.
Agree with all and take full responsibility for my ignorance. No excuses. The sad thing is, I was fully aware and followed anyway for whatever reason. I won't even try to justify that. If my wife and I were diving alone this wouldn't have happened. So, I'll take the hit on this one but thought it was valuable to share.
@lionfish-eater , I had 200 the last time I showed it to him and used that during the safety stop then went of his air.
thought it was valuable to share
Agree with all and take full responsibility for my ignorance. No excuses. The sad thing is, I was fully aware and followed anyway for whatever reason.
I find it amazing that anyone is in that situation enough to have formed a policy to govern it.When I am diving with someone who is likely to need an air share, I generally make them take my octo once they hit 500 psi.
It occasionally happens with new divers not used to current. Some of the shore based drift dives in the river can be shortened by surface swimming in, but the preference is to stay under. Depths when this happens are typically at 20 FFW.I find it amazing that anyone is in that situation enough to have formed a policy to govern it.