I think people might sometimes confuse the concept of the wing being able to lift you as a total package with it being able to float the kit at the surface in the event you remove it for some reason. Obviously the exposure suit will assist as a total package or you can assist by finning if flooded. If you mismanaged air, have a partially filled wing and finning alone won't cut it, I guess you have to ditch weight.
Based on comments here, and thinking the likelihood of floating the kit at the surface is low, I'll probably go with the 40lb wing. I'm leaning towards the Apeks D40 because it look like a pretty flat design that won't taco the tank, even at that size.
If I'm in a rescue scenario, and diving from a boat, I'll probably keep the kit on during the trip back to the boat anyway, assuming I will get help from someone on the boat lifting the person out of the water. If it's a shore dive, and the kit is slightly negative, I can always remove it in shallow water, carry the person out and retrieve it after.
Based on comments here, and thinking the likelihood of floating the kit at the surface is low, I'll probably go with the 40lb wing. I'm leaning towards the Apeks D40 because it look like a pretty flat design that won't taco the tank, even at that size.
If I'm in a rescue scenario, and diving from a boat, I'll probably keep the kit on during the trip back to the boat anyway, assuming I will get help from someone on the boat lifting the person out of the water. If it's a shore dive, and the kit is slightly negative, I can always remove it in shallow water, carry the person out and retrieve it after.