I have one notable cenote experience. I also have several points of interest I learned related to my experience
just from reading ScubaBoard today. I was AOW with about 30 dives and this was in 2016.
After a reef dive in Akumal with two other divers (whom I did not know), our DM asked if we would like to do a cavern dive in a cenote the following day. The DM indicated that he was comfortable doing so, having been in the water with us and seeing out skillsets. It would be a first for all of us and we decided to do it!
During the briefing, the DM said there would be "just a little bit of cave" between the cavern and an open room where we can surface and look around. When we got to the death sign, we swam around it and I turned back the other way while my DM continued past. He made eye contact with me and I looked at the sign and back at him a couple times. Then he motioned for me to follow him.
I do not remember my thought process but I remember it being a very challenging decision. I wish I could say I had made the right decision, but I followed the DM instead. Nothing terrible happened, but I was not comfortable and this was not what I had signed on for. For me, this was much more than "a little bit." I had trouble equalizing at one point and was going to have to descend, regardless of whether I went ahead or retreated (sort of a peak between two valleys), but we worked through it. I am always reluctantant to acknowledge gender distinctions, but I now wonder if being the only female pushed me to not "wimp out" and ruin it for everyone else. Next time, I will listen to my gut and grow a backbone.
My husband and I were in Cozumel just last week and after my cenote story came up, I realized I had always suspected this was really a cave dive. I looked at my log, got the name of the site, and did a search.
I learned the following on ScubaBoard TODAY:
- While the site has both cavern and cave routes, ours was a cave dive. When it said, "Do Not Pass," the death sign was talking to me.
- In preparation for a previous trip, I had read and replied in a ScubaBoard thread "A word to the wise on cenote diving," that had given me the information I needed to make the correct decision. I had no recollection of this until today.
- A story similar to mine happened to a couple of divers 3.5 years prior except they and their DM did not come out alive.
In the same cave.
With the same dive shop!
Most of my lessons learned from this experience have already been discussed in this thread. I do not know that I have anything too useful to add to the great insight already given, except maybe to find a way to triage and retain the massive amount of quality information we have at our fingertips.