I have read all of your thoughts on what you think had happend and I can tell you as his son I didnt know him well but I did know his character he does not panic he was a marine in nam and once a marine always a marine I can tell you this for sure even when he knew he was at the end of his rope he did not panic he just excepted his fate and went he always lived on the edge and I am sure he died the way he would have wanted to doing what he loved. You can say all you want about what youthink happend but know he never paniced it was not in him to. Bruce R.I.P.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I never had the opportunity to meet Bruce, but from what his friends and his dive buddies say, he was a fantastic man and a great diver.
As cave divers, what we're trying to do on this thread is figure out what happened, so hopefully, we can learn something from this tragic situation. Maybe, we can figure out what lead up to his death (whether it was an equipment malfunction, or buddy separation, etc), and learn how to prevent that situation in the future.
One of the theories that tends to come up in these types of situations is "panic". Definitely not panic in the sense of complete loss of control, but more of a perceptual narrowing type of thing. By mentioning "panic", we're in no way trying to discredit your dad or say he reacted inappropriately....it's just one of those theories that tends to come up in any accident analysis.
I can't even imagine what you're going through right now. I just want you to know that no one is trying to put down your dad; we're just trying to learn from the accident in order to try to prevent it from happening in the future.
If there's any questions I can answer, or anything I can do to help, please don't hesitate to send me a private message.
Rita