I don't fill my own tanks and it costs me the same whether I request a blend that is "standard" or one that is not. So, using a standard gas is no easier, in that regard. Dropping off my tanks and telling them the mix I want, regardless of a list of standards, and paying the same price for my fill. THAT is easy.
If I'm going out on a boat with potential to get diverted to a different site than what I wanted (which I figure is almost any time I'm out on a boat), then I will allow for that in my plan and choose a mix that will work for any dive site I might possibly end up at. Easy.
What do you do if your gas is good for a 50' increment and you get diverted to a site that just happens to be 10' or 20' deeper than the deepest part of your increment? Say, your gas is for 100 - 150' and you get diverted to a site that is 160' or 170'? Personally, I would have just planned for a max of 160' or 170' in the first place and my gas would still be pretty good if we do get to the actual desired site (< 150'). And I definitely would not choose to use the same gas at 105' that I would use at 145'.
As for calculating my deco, I just look at my computer. That's even easier than doing arithmetic! If my computer dies, I look at my other computer. If that one dies, too, I look at my wet notes. Still easier than doing arithmetic when I might be a little narc'ed. If 2 computers die and I lose my wet notes and my buddy, well then I guess I'll have to wing it.
Calculating Best Mix is easy. Why would I want to complicate my diving by having extra deco because my gas was actually good for another 40' of depth beyond what I was going to do? Carrying gas for a 200' dive when I'm only going to 160' seems like a pretty major compromise (as in, a lot of extra deco and possibly NEEDING to carry an AL80 of deco gas, when an AL40 would have been just fine).
Why would I want to complicate my diving by memorizing tables and calculating deco in my head during a dive? EASY is planning it ahead of time, using PC software, then staying within the planned limits and following a dive computer for the actual deco.
Anyway...
I think I understand now about how people in the real world are determining their trimix mixes.