I was taught that avoiding separation, required both buddies to work at it. I've wondered how well a discipline based on eye-balling, the buddy on every inhale would work. I've tried the buddy line, it works but I don't like lines. I've also used the torch beam method, I used to have a wonderful lady buddy that always stayed close and shone her torch beam in my path. Lets call her Florence, my lady with the lamp. I find diving with ladies, is generally very easy, they stay very close and are buddy concious. Maybe it's the way God made us, we find joy and comfort in each others close company, playing our natural roles as knight and fair damsel. I don't suppose most ladies, will get to know my 3 regular buddies Harry, Mark and Shamus as a man will. If your a fellow and you don't know them, I think your sure to meet them by n' by. When I think about it, I've met a Harriet, so there's sure to be a Mary for Mark and a lovely mate for Shamus.
I guess I dive a little different with a male dive buddy, because if or when I'm trying to avoid buddy separation, I usually feel, I'm the only one making an effort.
Harry likes to position himself, 3-4 ft behind me and 3-4 ft above, unless he sees something that interests him. He doesn't listen to dive briefing and even if I stop and signal, he won't dive by my side. He's a right pain in the neck, do you think I should get wing mirrors?
Mark is a super swimmer, but he's got to be out in front, no matter whose leading the dive and seldom if ever, looks back. (I've now got an underwater scooter.)
Shamus has changed his name, he used to be called Mark, until I played a crafty trick on him. I gave him my medium jets, when I got myself a pair of extra large jets. These days he just does the traditional leprechaurn trick, you only have to blink and he vanishes.
Och well back to the drawing board, fortunately I get on well with my buddies because there's a bit of me in everyone of them.
