Another +1 for BP/W. I think it's great for anyone whatever shape, size or gender you may be!
I used to rent jacket BCs when I started diving back in September. It always felt like I was getting an awkward hug walking to the shore and I had a lot of trouble with my buoyancy using it under water. It may not be for everyone, same with BP/W, but I love my
Dive Rite BP/W setup! Like
@LandonL and
@Ayisha said, the customization is key. I love that it's as simple as some webbing, a stainless steel plate, and a wing. You can always trim or re-web it if need be. Here's what it looks like from the front:
It's amazing how freeing it is to simply clip things off to my D rings like my light and SPG. Additionally, I love the fact that I was able to easily remove 5lbs of lead just by getting the stainless steel backplate. ** I don't know about you, but the less lead the better in my opinion. It took me around 5-10 dives to dial everything in and feel comfortable enough to start trimming the webbing as needed. 100% worth it.
As for the reg, I have the Atomic M1 and love it. Not specific for any diver - I just liked the build quality and that it only requires service every 2 years/300 dives. I found it breathes better for me personally than other regs I rented in the past.
Hope this helps. let me know if you have any questions
Good luck in your search
** edit: to be clear, I shed 5lbs of lead off my waist/cam band by switching to a SS backplate. I still carry the 5lbs, however, it’s evenly distributed on my SS plate and I barely notice it.