yeah, some of my comments here have led to some interesting DM discussions....Except 1) they aren't the same. And 2) there are plenty of terrible arseholey misogynistic, homophobic, jerkwad, instructors around that end up being a waste of time, money, and aggravation to the point of nearly quitting diving. Sorry not sorry but far too many people make excuses for "personality differences" which are far beyond that.