here's my two (hundred) pesos...
First, I really want to commend you for being so conscientious about this as a new diver...and for ASKING questions that you don't know the answer to. I wish I saw more of this attitude in new divers and seasoned divers alike.
Second, I like what NetDoc and Rick had to say...along with several others...even though I can't remember exactly who
Some additional thoughts (I apologize if these are redundant...but isn't that what this is about
If your computer, primary or back-up go into deco mode..."do the time" as Rick said. Fulfill the deco obligation and do a proper ascent, and it will not lock you out.
I'll remind you of a couple of things that should have been thoroughly covered in your open water training, and which are stated right on the PADI RDP's. (I believe you did a PADI cert at Cozemeleño).
"Emergency decompression - If a no-decompression limit is exceeded by no more than 5 minutes, an 8 minute decompression stop at 15 feet is mandatory. Upon surfacing, the diver must remain out of the water for at least 6 hours prior to making another dive. If a no-decompression is exceeded by more than 5 minutes, a 15 ft decompression stop of no less than 15 minutes is urged (air supply permitting).Upon surfacing, the diver must remain out of the water for at least 24 hours prior to making another dive."
Special Rules for Multiple Dives - If you are planning threee or more dives in a day: Beginning with the first dive, if your ending pressure group after any dive is W or X, the minimum surface interval between subsequent dives is 1 hour. If your ending pressure group after any dive is Y or Z, the minimum surface interval between all subsequent dives is 3 hours."
In essence, your computer is telling you the same thing if you go into deco...the difference is that it is calculating your actual profiles rather than the "hypothetical" calculations of the RDP. Therefore, if you exceed those limitations imposed by your computer based on YOUR profiles, you need to fulfill the deco obligations it requires.
DO you need to sit out for three hours? That depends...what does your computer tell you? AS your brother may have indicated to you, we (BXTS) do an absolute minimum of 1 hour SI's ALWAYS...usually more like 90 to 120 minutes depending on what kind of profiles we have been doing in the preceeding day(s). Some people whine about this, but that's our policy and I enforce this as much (or more) for my divemasters as I do for our guest divers. This proves very helpful to those on Suunto computers and it gives us more options for our second dive. Obviously, it also allows us more offgassing time so that we have less residual nitrogen for our next dive(s).
To qualify this, we also require computers and we allow our divers to dive their computers and air to 1000 psi or 700psi (depending on the profile)...whichever comes first. If this means a 30 minute dive or if it means a 60 or 70 minute dive, so be it...but each diver is responsible for monitoring their computers and communicating with the DM/ascending to a shallower depth/making a proper ascent/fulfilling a deco obligation, etc. We give divers as much autonomy as possible unless they demonstrate that they need more supervision and more "monitoring" so to speak. If someone cannot follow the dive plan (exceed the max. depth given in the briefing), or if they allow themselves to go into deco and do not fulfill their deco obligation...then we address the situation accordingly. The DM is a guide and will give a dive plan for the group as a whole, but if your computer doesn't "like" this plan, it's your responsibility as a certified diver to adjust your plan accordingly and to communicate this to the DM if applicable.
SO...back to the original question. Is there a lock-out rule enforced by dive operators? Yes, but that IS within your control.
Monitor your computer, communicate with the DM, ascend to a shallower depth if necessary, abort the dive if necessary, and always make sure you allow yourself enough air to fulfill your deco obligation if you get into that position...make your computer happy before you surface. If you do these things, I highly doubt you'll be forced to sit out a dive.
Make sense?
One more note: I dive with two completely different computers. I am sure this will invoke many differing opinions, but this is MY purpose for the two computers.
I dive a UWATEC Smartpro and an Oceanic VersaPro...almost one extreme to the other. The Uwatec has always been my primary. When purchasing my second computer I went with the Oceanic for price (couldn't afford another UWATEC) and because the user can change the batteries...which is very important to me...when my Uwatec batteries go, I have to send it in to Scubapro and am without it for two to three weeks...
I always dive nitrox (unless a dive is planned beyond EAN limits). I dive nitrox based on AIR calculations, but I still want to track my O2 exposure. I set my Uwatec to the actual blend, and I dive the Oceanic on air...staying WITHIN the limits...meaning I don't even allow myself to get into the yellow graph area. This way, I am tracking both O2 exposure AND nitrogen exposre on a very conservative level. On several occasions, even with the UWATEC set to nitrox (or when I have forgotten to reset it = user error), it has still put me into a deco obligation while the Oceanic still says I'm "ok." In this event, I satisfy the deco obligation of the obviously more conservative computer, even if I know it was simply a setting error. People who have dove with me personally know that i Typically do very long "safety" stops and that my UWATEC is REALLY conservative...but I still use it and I still keep it happy even if it is irritating at times
I hope I didn't overwhelm you and I hope this has been helpful!