As 911 approaches.. how have you changed ?

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As 911 approaches. how have you changed ? Of course, I now dive at every opportunity, at least every month.

Seriously, though, I believe that while every generation believes its experience to be unique, we as a people have been through this before, and can chose to prevail as our ancestors did—or not. As a Washingtonian, I’ve turned to local history for a sense of context.

In August of 1814, 5,000 soldiers—the pick of Duke of Wellington’s army fresh from beating Napoleon-- marched toward Washington with the express goal of burning down the Capitol’s symbolic public buildings. Before them were only local militia (they fled), and several hundred sailors under Commodore Barney. The sailors fought until they were over-run and many died in the forlorn cause of defending a small city of 8,000 against impossible odds. The invaders entered Washington, torched the Capitol and government buildings, and drank ale to the light of the burning White House.

A month later, on September 13, 1814, a Maryland lawyer stood on a warship of the invading force that had every right to expect it would crush the resistance before it. No one anticipated that another militia in Baltimore would repulse the strongest militry in force in the world, or that Major Armistead and his troops would hold Fort McHenry, and yet they did. The lawyer, Francis Scott Key, wrote a poem about it.

My point is that we should keep current hardships and challenges in context, as challenging as that might seem. Our cities and country have been through hardship before and the nation has survived with it’s values and Constitution intact, more or less. People fought for our principals—our Constitutional principals—in the past, and their loved ones mourned their passing as poignantly as we all mourn the loss or our own.

I can’t speak for the losses of New York, which are unspeakable, but as a local in this magnificent if often maligned city to the south, I believe the memory of Barney, Armistead and their good men were honored by the brave men and women who never abandoned our modern fortress across the Potomac, which has been rebuilt.

So this year I will continue to do what I did last year, to stay on the job all day, to honor the memory of not only of those who fell last year but the likes of Commodore Barney and his men, throughout history.
 
by LD.

She denounced this country.

I also had the opportunity to see how her and Mr Hayden managed to screwup the local government of Santa Monica (just my opinion) by trying to make it a socialist city.
 
Natasha - who would'a thunk such an innocent post would elicit such responses! The obvious answer, after spending the day reading this, is that we have all been deeply impacted by the tragic events. (WW almost got thrown out-o-here!) Whether liberal or conservative, pro- or anti-invasion, activist or pacifist, rebuild it or leave it a monument, everyone feels deeply.

We will never be able to guage the full impact of 9-11 in terms of post traumatic stress disorders, suicides, etc. That will be with us for decades.

I, personally, have tried to be more helpful to strangers, friendlier, more willing to linger and listen/talk to the stranger or the guy behind the counter who makes my sandwich at lunch. I find people in NYC to be much friendlier, even the cabbies!

I still fly (frequently), I try to be patient when I get pulled, frisked, patted down, take off my shoes, turn on my computer, watch my handbag and briefcase be torn apart...Business travel changed - many people seem more willing to talk, a lot of the time I just listen. Everyone has a story to tell. People help with bags, stowing or retrieving. Fewer people make fusses at ticket agents.

I call my family and friends more. I don't procrastinate as much. I cried in church yesterday when they played the Battle Hymn of the Republic during the processional.

On the down side, I have more anxiety attacks, more sleepless nights. I drive up the NJ Turnpike and look around for low flying planes around Newark. I wonder if Philly was on a hit list that day? Don't mistake me for someone who needs psych services or another Prozac princess, I'm being honest here. (I'm sure other have similar feelings.)

On 9-11 I will be traveling. Didn't realize the date (I know hard to believe) when I booked the client. I will be in NYC and in the air. Wish me well!
 
Good Luck Jersey.

Like you, I frequently travel on business. I spend more time looking at my fellow passengers, wondering which one might be a problem and how to stop them if it comes to that. At the same time, I've found that the longer delays and shared hassles associated with traveling lead to a sense of comeraderie that is not entirely unpleasant. Kind of a "We're all in this together" mentality.

I hope that things go well for you.
 
I kiss my children and wife every day before I leave, and tell them I love them...

I say yes more and worry less about the bills later...

I go to work at 8:30 or 9 instead of 7:30, and go home before 6...

I take days off to be with my family-just because...

I never miss a recital, play, teacher conference etc.

When I pray, I actually take a moment to prepare so it is not just words...

I have made some decisions at work, which can be considered un businesslike, in support of the people who work here...money has no heartbeat...

I drive slower, take longer routes, and traded my sedan for a convertible so I can put the top down...

I look at my wife every day and know I am very lucky and she could have done better...

etc. etc.

Ken
 
kwesler once bubbled...
I kiss my children and wife every day before I leave, and tell them I love them...

I say yes more and worry less about the bills later...

I go to work at 8:30 or 9 instead of 7:30, and go home before 6...

I take days off to be with my family-just because...

I never miss a recital, play, teacher conference etc.

When I pray, I actually take a moment to prepare so it is not just words...

I have made some decisions at work, which can be considered un businesslike, in support of the people who work here...money has no heartbeat...

I drive slower, take longer routes, and traded my sedan for a convertible so I can put the top down...

I look at my wife every day and know I am very lucky and she could have done better...

etc. etc.

Ken

Maybe the most worthwhile and thoughtful response in this thread, in my humble and personal opinion...
 
King Kong Matt once bubbled...


Maybe the most worthwhile and thoughtful response in this thread, in my humble and personal opinion...

In mine also.

Tom
 
I've seen the 'sizing up the passengers' look often! I engage in it myself. My first line of defense will be one of my heels, well placed. I think I wandered up to your neck-o-the-woods last week - working in beautiful Putnam CT.

Ken - I too have started taking the road less travelled, driving around with the windows open to let the air in, smelling the flowers, , taking a day off to make a 'special day' with a newphew or niece (last week the NJ Aquarium for the 7 yr old shark fan and future diver) and saying 'no' to extra work.

W'Writer - glad to see you are still here, your obvious passion towards things diving and non-diving are refreshing.
 
Jersey, I don't wear heals, but I've got a couple of thoughts that might serve well (in view of the current atmosphere, I decline to elaborate).

If your traveling to Putnam, I'm assuming your going through Bradley Airport (Hartford/Springfield). If so, and you are free for lunch, give me a ring as we are about 10 minutes away from the airport.
 
Usually, when posts go on for four pages (or more) I just read them and don't add my own. This one, however, touched me in ways I would not have imagined.
:upset: I realize how jaded I have become by our media's opportunistic sensationalizing of these very tragic events. While I intend to reflect, mourn, and pray, on 9/11/02, as I have on almost every day since 9/11/01, I don't need to watch TV or read newspaper drivel to tell me how it has affected me. So, I have found that I have allowed myself to become somewhat numb to what others may be going thru as we approach this "anniversary"

After reading these posts, I am reassured that many Americans, and many HUMANS, still think for themselves, and are not afraid to share their thoughts, their experiences, and their opinions with others. Or, maybe it's just DIVERS!!!:droplet:

Otherwise,
I was already telling my wife and kids that I loved them -- every day and twice a day.

I already tried to find something good in every one, and . . .

I already own a convertible!

But, I still look up in the sky, differently than I ever did before, when I hear a jet airplane flying over...
 

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