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. What I have discovered since that day has made me sad as Ben's body was close to being found with a little more patience and planning.
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. It would be wonderful to locate Ben's remains so all these questions could be answered as to what actually happened. Our family has not ever believed anything other that he is in the cave buried in a crevice or unexplored section..
I would like to think there might be a GPS required for every diver to have on their person when they go into the water.
You make some very wise and timely comments. Sometimes I wish there was a support group for families that lost loved ones in cave diving accidents. A name I eluded to earlier was Sheck Exley,for the sport,he could be considered the "Father of cave diving",since to this day he had done more exploration etc than anybody. I met the parents of Sheck,and great people like yourself,but you have to think they wake up each day and wonder why this sport claimed both their children. I have been cave diving for 20 years,and I have lost some close friends that contributed a lot to the sport,and to this day I still wonder why. I really do hope that Ben one day is located so you and your family can have closure,and do appreciate your up beat advice. Thank you KellyTo: Karstdvr
Thank you for your response. I have probably posted too much information, and have probably upset some. But, may I say it is extremely difficult for me to come to a closure. I most definitely appreciate every diver who has been involved toward locating Ben's body. And, my response has not been too positive early on towards a few---which as I think back now was due from emotional disappointment. I do want to apologize again to those who I offended. I've never been in this situation before, and I tend to carry my feelings on my shoulder. Part of it I miss my two sons so much! They were both special to me. They both had great talents. Both were very adventurous. I am on a journey I did not request. I do believe in my heart, knowing Ben and how much he was looking forward to making a career "In the water" something terrible happened at Vortex Springs that Wednesday. Only God and Ben know for sure. I pray this incident maybe has influenced divers somewhat to make sure they have prepared safely in their dives. I would like to think there might be a GPS required for every diver to have on their person when they go into the water. I ask that all divers just make sure they spend time with their kids and love on them. I did have some great times with both boys, going hunting, scouting, fishing, camping, rock climbing, summer vacations to the beach and being their coach during their school years here in Memphis. Again, thanks to all who have tried their best to locate Ben.