Got an attentive husband who loves to cook, and loves going out for drinks, and has his own bank account/financially stable, etc. Started dating when we were young (I was under 20) and now together for 15 years. No kids. No cheating either. I'm Not happy though..........was earlier, but things have changed in the past couple of years.
1) Hobbies that I choose (sporty), he wants no part of - his, of course, drinking and vacationing (think hotel and remote control), are encouraged.
2) Prenupitual agreement. Hate that we share nothing - even in death - what's mine is mine, what's his is his and never the two shall meet. Expenses are 50/50 to the ninth degree - even though he makes twice what I do! This is increasingly bothering me.......distant relatives will get more than me or my familiy always - no matter if we're together 10 years or 60 years......
3) Separate families - my families challenges are entirely mine, his are entirely his - good and bad.
I'm professional and financially stable myself. He's made it fully clear that I'll never be part of his family or join in any way financially - our kids - if we ever had any - would get it all....BTW - we both are fairly attractive physically. I've gotten so that I could care less about you know what - but he's threatened divorce if that doesn't change soon............He'd do counseling, but won't budge on the financial matters or participate in more sporty hobbies ..............
Am I being stupid to want and expect more out of life and my husband?
1) Hobbies that I choose (sporty), he wants no part of - his, of course, drinking and vacationing (think hotel and remote control), are encouraged.
2) Prenupitual agreement. Hate that we share nothing - even in death - what's mine is mine, what's his is his and never the two shall meet. Expenses are 50/50 to the ninth degree - even though he makes twice what I do! This is increasingly bothering me.......distant relatives will get more than me or my familiy always - no matter if we're together 10 years or 60 years......
3) Separate families - my families challenges are entirely mine, his are entirely his - good and bad.
I'm professional and financially stable myself. He's made it fully clear that I'll never be part of his family or join in any way financially - our kids - if we ever had any - would get it all....BTW - we both are fairly attractive physically. I've gotten so that I could care less about you know what - but he's threatened divorce if that doesn't change soon............He'd do counseling, but won't budge on the financial matters or participate in more sporty hobbies ..............
Am I being stupid to want and expect more out of life and my husband?
