scubamickey
I'm a GIRL!
Thank you all again for your help. I'm going to Grand Cayman where the 2 morning boat dives are on a deep reef and you can choose to do your own profile and NOT be led by the hand. Unlimited shore diving and technical diving support. Exactly what we wanted. It will be a little more expensive but not being led around by a divemaster is of huge importance to me as a photographer and capable diver. We thought we might have found this with Coconut Divers, but their afternoon dives are geared toward beginners and snorkelers (I shudder at the thought). I remember now why we've never gone to Roatan 
Bye and thanks again. Your input was invaluable. I almost made a huge mistake.

Bye and thanks again. Your input was invaluable. I almost made a huge mistake.