The age of the hoses is not a big deal, to start with, based on the age of the second stages, they are not that old. Many of us are using hoses 20 or more years old that are completely serviceable. This has been discussed on SB before and it was pointed out, that new hoses have in fact failed too. While sudden catastrophic failure is possible, the majority of failures start as a slow and progressing leak. As long a the hose looks in good shape, is not hard or leaking, there is no good reason to replace it "just because I don't know how old it is". The ones that were failing in a few years were the newer Miflex type hoses, not the older style as these are. How many of us are driving cars that are 10,15 or even 20 years old that use basically the exact same hoses on our brake lines, I have never heard anyone recommending they be replaced every few years, if lots of accidents were being caused by failed brake hoses, we would surely be hearing about it. Brake lines are much less easy to inspect, operate under a lot worse conditions and IMO, a failure of them is much worse. Don't get me wrong, I am all for good maintenance but swapping parts that do not actually wear out but rather are replaced "just because" is rarely a worthwhile venture for anyone other than those who sell parts.
In general I agree with you about used scuba hoses. They need a good cleaning and inspection.
But hoses, both scuba and in cars do get brittle and develop cracks with age. I had a fuel leak in a cracked hose in an older convertible car. I could smell the vapour and feel it on my face after a drive, but the mechanic wasn't able to find it on repeated visits. Eventually I found an ultraviolet fuel dye and let the car idle. The fuel hoses were not expensive. The labour charge (and lost fuel) was.