Also, you'd think that her husband is the one who should have been very attentive to his wife, his dive partner. He knew her the best, and should have been aware and attentive of any stress she might have had. Finally, if the viz was 10-15 feet, it's not great, but he certainly should have been within that range as her dive buddy. They say the viz was terrible at the bottom, but that was a result of kicking up silt. I have to wonder what transpired from the time the husband/wife team were together, to the time he lost her, and finally why he didn't immediately notify the instructor of his missing buddy, instead of lagging behind the group, looking for her himself.
I've taught other husband/wife dive buddy teams during Open Water classes, and normally have to pry them apart.
I dont' know, just seems rather odd.
So, questioning why the buddy has acted the way he did keeps being brought up.
Yes, he did know her better than anyone else in the group, but he knew her better
out of the water. It is a whole new ball game in the water.
How many students, or even certified divers struggle to tell their buddies, friends, even family members apart in a group of divers. Yes, the diver should have been trained in all of the proper procedures but were they? Did they show that they were competent in those skills and did they demonstrate that high level of awareness so many seem to be demanding of these students? Most likely not.
Despite any original plan of a formation they could have very easily ended up in some sort of ball or crowd. The husband very well might have assumed his buddy was just in the group of divers.
in the critiques, IMO, should be focused on the instructor and the way that the class was taught trained. With 15 feet of viz he sure should have been within range of his buddy. Being new to an environment such as diving it can be very difficult to locate anyone in the water. Someone could be right behind or right above you and for a new diver, or even a somewhat experienced diver could struggle to find them. Who else should have been within range of those divers and aware of where those divers were...the instructor!
The buddy may not have known how to communicate what was going on with the instructor. Also it keeps being brought up that the diver was trailing the group and that something was visibly wrong. Should the instructor not have noticed that a diver was lagging behind and clearly not comfortable? The husband would have communicated that his buddy was not with the group once they surfaced, it is egregious that it would have taken until this moment for the professional in the group to realize a diver was missing. Makes me wonder if he had left to go looking for his wife, could this have turned into a bigger tragedy...
To be a good and safe buddy takes awareness, understanding, buoyancy control, and so much more. It is perfected over years and years of diving. The open water dives are used to reenforce and evaluate the foundations of diving while under the supervision of a trained professional. Every diver is this group was still learning and we need to remember that.
A lot of this seems odd, the actions of the buddy do not.