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Wow this is some thread for sure.
Last fall I dove with a guy that claimed to have just gotten his DM a couple months before and to have logged 200 dives total. His skills sucked big time.
I am not sure that a diver that is unsure of themselves to the point of liking to have a professional in the water with them is anywhere near as dangerous as a guy that thinks he knows it all after collecting a cert or two and so just goes and forges ahead getting himself, and maybe others that foolishly trust him, into stuff they have not right being in.
My thoughts as well. Whatever you think about the merits of someone's training, recognizing their limits and acting accordingly is taking responsibility for their safety. As you say, it's far better to fall back on asking someone else for help than it is to assume you have skills you don't have and get yourself in trouble because of it.
One of the things that gets uncomfortable reading threads like this one is the potential for the comments to inhibit someone from asking for assistance ... or from talking about why they feel the need for it. New divers tend to put a premium on peer pressure, and it's not uncommon for them to worry more about "ruining their buddy's good time" than to think about what's prudent for their own safety and comfort level. I like to tell the new diver I mentor to not hesitate doing whatever they feel is prudent in order to maintain their own limits and comfort level ... even if it means changing the dive plan or cutting the dive short. I tell them not to worry about "ruining my good time" ... because the best way to avoid that is to not put themselves in a situation where I might have to rescue them.
... Bob (Grateful Diver)