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By now many of you have probably read the article I posted a few days ago about Jennifer ... a young woman who died on a scuba dive she never should have been on five years ago. The article was written, with my assistance, by her mother ... Julie Simonds. It was Julie's wish to tell this story in the hope that it might save someone else from a similar experience.

But there was something else Julie wanted to do. Four years ago she decided she needed to see the place where her daughter died. To that end, she learned how to scuba dive, and has worked to make sure that her skills would be sufficient to make this dive. As she did with the article, she asked me to accompany her on this journey ... along with her husband, a family friend, and a young woman who was there the day Jennifer died.

On Wednesday, Julie, her husband Burton, and their friend Polly flew from the east coast to the Seattle area. Thursday we met at Keystone Jetty for a shakedown dive ... to make sure all the gear they brought with them worked right, and to get them properly weighted with the additional undergarments they'd be wearing underneath their drysuits to dive here. It was a typical summer day in Puget Sound ... 62 degrees and cloudy, with a chilly wind blowing out of the north. But the conditions were inviting, with small tides, mild current and very good visibility ... and with some minor delays to get the weighting right, we had a lovely dive.

Here's Julie and Burton just before the dive ...

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Yesterday was the day Julie had planned for ... a return to Lummi Rocks, the site where her daughter lost her life in July 2007. The weather proved much more cooperative ... sunny and mid-70's ... just about perfect Pacific Northwest summer weather. At the boat ramp I also met Katie ... who was on the fateful dive five years earlier. We bundled into the boat and headed across Bellingham Bay to the dive site.

From left to right ... Katie, Polly, Julie and Burton ...

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Arriving at the dive site, all was peaceful ... some of the locals were there to greet us ...

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Julie and I got in first ...

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Upon being joined by the others, we dropped below the surface and began our dive. After a time, Julie found a place where she wanted to put a small memorial to her daughter ... a shelf of rock where the token could rest for a time ...

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We continued our dive until our air supply said it was time to make our way to the surface.

On the boat, Katie recounted her memories of the day, and Polly read a verse in memory of Jennifer ...

I'd like the memory of me to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,
Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun;
Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.

Unlike the others in our group, I never met Jennifer. But if she was anything like her mom ... a woman who turned tragedy into a passion and a celebration of life ... then this was a fitting memorial.

For all the dives I've ever done ... the caves, wrecks, exotic locations, beautiful walls, and memorable experiences with special friends ... this is the dive that I'll remember the most. To Julie ... an amazing woman with a beautiful, positive outlook on life ... thank you for asking me to be a part of it ...

... Bob (Grateful Diver)
 
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Thank you for all you do Bob.
 
Thanks for sharing such a memorable story.
 
Wow!!
 
Very nice. Sounds like a very special mom.
 
Beautiful, touching, heartbreaking, inspiring; what a great tribute and valuable lesson Julie has shared with us.

Thanks for being there with her Bob.
 
Memorable to say the least. I'm sure you felt honored to facillitate and share the dive. It's rare that we get to be part of something that is so meaningful.

Very nice Bob,

Pete
 
It is a fantastic experience to be part of someone's closure and healing in that way. I felt very much the same when we spread Jake's ashes for his family.

Glad the Pacific Northwest cooperated for Julie's mom to be able to do this, and bless you, Bob, for helping it happen.
 
Unlike the others in our group, I never met Jennifer. But if she was anything like her mom ... a woman who turned tragedy into a passion and a celebration of life ... then this was a fitting memorial.

For all the dives I've ever done ... the caves, wrecks, exotic locations, beautiful walls, and memorable experiences with special friends ... this is the dive that I'll remember the most. To Julie ... an amazing woman with a beautiful, positive outlook on life ... thank you for asking me to be a part of it ...

... Bob (Grateful Diver)

Thank you very much for everything Bob. Jennifer was an amazing young woman - always smiling or laughing. She truly loved life and enjoyed every moment. That's what I have tried to carry on through this journey of grieving. I couldn't have done this without the support of a lot of people - starting with the dive shop in VA, Sterling Silver Scuba. The owners and instructors have gone out of their way to work with me and have helped me get through the frustrations experienced over the last 4 years. The emotional support from my husband, family and friends has been reassuring and encouraging. The support of Jeremy at WA Divers, you, Polly, Burton and Katie prior to and during the dive made the day what it was - beautiful and far exceeding any expectations I had. There isn't enough that I can do to show my appreciation.

Julie
 
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