I like you Kosta, but please don't take it personally. The whole thread is about what's killing dive shops. If I had to pay by the word, I wouldn't say "What's killing dive shops is dick customers", I'd say "What's killing dive shops is dick dive shop owners". The truth is somewhere in between, but you're taking one guys shopping habits as if it's a personal slam on you, slamming back, and showing the reason folks hate their LDS.
When I shop on Amazon, no one ever says "Don't shop here", they just fulfill my order. When I buy from LeisurePro, no one once says to me "I don't like your diving style, please choose another shop". I am guilty of this too, which is why I'm no longer in the charter boat business (If you don't like what I serve for dinner, choose another boat). Guess what? Folks chose another boat.
Frank, none of this is personal to me. I'm just expressing my opinion of such customers. I don't own a shop, never will. I will have a dive op, but that's focused on chartering/lessons. So I'm not affected by this. Also, I'll be in the Greek islands. If you have never been, you should go. It is a nice, relaxed life. Not luxurious, but really nice.
Yes, dick dive shop owners who don't understand the importance of relationships and are not business savvy is the bulk of the problem. However, dick customers don't help either. I talked to one shop manager who told me one time he spent 2 hours with a customer to find out what would fit him, work for him based on his diving needs etc.. And then the guy said thanks, left and bought everything online. He didn't even give the shop a chance to match the price. Now this manager is a super nice guy, an asset to the local diving community, but he was justifiably furious. He kept his cool, but vents a bit each time he shares the story.
Such customers are fortunately the the exception and not the rule, but they do make an impact. They make the shops lose money, as employee time is money.
One of my students was looking for a manifold for his doubles. Now the DGX one for $100 simply cannot be beat. Thermo Pro, XS Scuba are all more than double that. For a shop carrying the XS Scuba line, they just can't compete. In that case, the shop manager understood completely why the customer (my student) bought that item online. However, the customer bought everything else from that shop (regs, tanks, BP/W, dry suit), so the shop still did quite well in the end with that customer.
Dive shop owners/managers need to be fair. That's part of customer service. But customers shouldn't be exploiting them either. I'm selling some of my dive gear that I'm not using. Recently someone asked me if the price is firm. My response was a question on if the price was unfair or too high, given that this item was in excellent condition, hardly used, not modified, and the asking price was a little over half of what it would be new. So I explained that I thought not only this was a fair price, but also a good deal. That's a nice way of me saying that the price if firm. I try to be fair with stuff that I sell. I want people to be happy with what they buy from me. I try to bite my tongue when people try to low ball me. I've never lowballed anyone. In fact, I bought a used BP/W at almost retail cost from a guy who had to dump his dive gear to pay for his young daughter's medical treatment. Lowballing him would have been particularly low (and people were trying). I tried to pay full retail, but he wouldn't take it. So I paid $50. At least he got some use out of his gear before being forced to sell it, and I didn't screw him over, but helped him in a small way.