I totally agree. 100%!
But, everyone involved agrees on the importance of diving as a team and of having matching gases. And the dive plan was agreed upon months ago (when we were originally going to do this trip, but got blown out). So, to come back with this short notice and simply advise everyone that this one diver has decided for himself to use a completely different set of gases (and, I'm fairly confident, a Ratio Deco ascent) seems to be a clear indication that the "team" concept has no meaning and use of Sacramental Gases is more important than diving in keeping with the team concept. And that smacks of following dogma, instead of training that teaches a diver to think for themselves - about EVERY aspect of their diving. As has already been alluded to in this thread, it seems to be indicative of a culture - an exclusive one (versus an inclusive one).
It's good to hear that some folks are actively working to try and eliminate these kinds of behaviors, but I think Lorenzoid's hope that "things are different now" is only partly true today.