If you and I were buddied on a boat in your home waters, I'd probably be guilty of #5, 6 and perhaps even 7 although I consider myself rather calm, collected and safety-conscious for the level of experience I'm at. Why? Because almost all of my dives are local, shore dives with my club or private diving from my own small boat, and I don't know any local "rules" for behavior on a boat in your waters. On the commercial boat outings arranged by one of the local LDSs here, you're expected to be fully suited up even before the boat leaves the harbor, so unless I were looking at the people around me to see how they did it, I'd probably do the same thing when abroad.
That doesn't necessarily mean that I'm a disproportionately unsafe diver when I'm in the water, though. I'm more than old enough to fully realize that I'm mortal...
I understand what you are saying and agree its not an absolute. The example I use in relation to suiting up is where there is say an hour trip to the dive site, normally most people suit up 10 min before the boat anchors up. But you are right, customs in one area are not a custom necessarily in another. If you did that here or the tropics, you would probably be dead from dehydration or heatstroke before you got to the site. That's where a good dive brief tells everyone how it is at that site. We have one site here, a boat dive, but if you aren't dressed ready before the boat leaves, you will miss the dive, as its only about 200 m from the pier. So yes I do understand and appreciate your point.
I guess its more putting all the bits together when watching divers. Its not usually just one thing that sets off warning bells, its a combination. If a diver has only a few dives under their belt, its a normal reaction as becoming better at diving takes time, and generally they will exhibit a combination of small things that show their inexperience. An "experienced" diver who is crowing about how great he/she is and has "apparently" done many dives, and then exhibits these signs would be a huge red flag to me. I still remember all the things I did and didn't do when I first became a diver, and I appreciated all the help I was given to assist me. Time usually makes us better at what we do. For some however their arrogance/ego and personality prevent them from learning.
Arrogance and overconfidence however I do not tolerate. In saying that, I have buddied up to one of these egotistical divers on occasions, simply to ensure that a beginner is not going to be stuck with them due to being the odd one out and thus potentially exposed to a high risk of the divers stupidity. Best handled by someone more experienced, however my preference would be to take on the beginner and help them relax and enjoy, even if it does shorten my dive time. I feel then I have given something back to a sport I love.
Just because someone is loud doesn't make them a bad diver or rude, its just the way some are. Same with quiet people, doesn't make them inexperienced. Its the total package that tells the story.
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