That's right, Ayisha. The resort promised a full report, but then their lawyers worked out a deal better for business, removing threads from here and the CCV forum as well as guaranteeing the family's silence. Even when CO is proven, the stories are hidden as bad for business. Most locations don't have the ability to test blood for CO tho, if they fly a sample to a lab that does - they don't release results openly, and any testing done when the remains are returned to the States would probably be too late.
I didn't know about all those confirmed CO deaths. As you say, they're probably just the tip of the iceberg.
Your experience was a damned close call. CO tank testers are $300+, probably less for you, easy to use & maintain, and after that experience - I'd think you'd want to.
To me, the CO issue is mostly about choosing what dive shop will fill my tanks.....Maybe easy for me since primarily I use either of two top notch dive shops, both with impeccable fill systems.....
i would have an interest in the stats on CO content by location....Florida....Caribbean islands, pacific islands, etc....where is it most important to get analysis for CO ?
Florida has the strictest rules in the US altho they still allow 10 ppm, and if a shop allows that past their fileters - you have to wonder what else is getting in the tanks? Do your favorite shops have inline CO monitors with auto shut offs? Really, the only way to be sure is test with your own kit, as anyone can have a bad day at work huh? My home bud thought I was too paranoid about this issue until we went to NM for some practice dives and our tanks there tested 5 ppm.

He was with me in Coz when I refused to dive tanks with 17 and turned the boat too.
As far as the Caribbean, Pacific, and the rest of the world other than US, Canada, UK, Australia, and and maybe the EU - you are totally on your own. Very few compressors test at all, you don't know which do and how good they are, and warmer climates have more cases of overworked compressors burning their own lubricating oil to produce CO internally.