RonFrank
Contributor
I am concerned about the emotions that diving may evoke due to the association with your mother. I am more concerned about the idea that you are a new diver, and your attention must be focused on your diving/skills, not anything negative that has occurred in the past.
Only you can determine if you are able to focus on diving and not your loss. If the loss is in the past and you can focus on the responsibility of the dive that is good. Remember this is a buddy activity. If diving is bringing up strong feelings you have not had since the loss, it may be too soon.
I hope you can make these determinations in a pool, and I would think 3 1/2 years is long enough, but its an individual thing. Remember that your buddy depends on you, so please don't dive unless you are in a good place to do so. Maybe do you first couple dives with an instructor if that helps.
Remember if you are UW and start to feel panicked...Stop, Think, then Act. Good advice in most situations.
Ohh, don't tell your Dad just yet until diving is firmly back in you life IMO. Your call.
Good Luck..
Only you can determine if you are able to focus on diving and not your loss. If the loss is in the past and you can focus on the responsibility of the dive that is good. Remember this is a buddy activity. If diving is bringing up strong feelings you have not had since the loss, it may be too soon.
I hope you can make these determinations in a pool, and I would think 3 1/2 years is long enough, but its an individual thing. Remember that your buddy depends on you, so please don't dive unless you are in a good place to do so. Maybe do you first couple dives with an instructor if that helps.
Remember if you are UW and start to feel panicked...Stop, Think, then Act. Good advice in most situations.
Ohh, don't tell your Dad just yet until diving is firmly back in you life IMO. Your call.
Good Luck..