I am in the same situation as you, and understand the concern for traveling with your family, we leave for Roatan on the 6th, for 2 and 1/2 weeks, we being me, my wife and my 11yr old son. We don't really see a reason not to go.
I have been following the posts here as well as trying to follow the news to try and educate myself about the situation. It certainly appears that all is quiet in the Islands. I think we'll be as safe there as we will be during our overnight in Houston.
I have paid a bit more attention since its the family and all, I probably wouldn't take them to the capital,(would go myself) but we didn't plan a trip to the mainland so that is not an issue.
We also run a small business in a tourist destination and I do feel sympathy for all those losing business because of inaccurate reporting on the news. So until I hear of actual violence or violent disturbances on the island we are going. Although we haven't had a vacation in a long time so my wife would probably be ok with wearing a flak jacket if needed.
Anyway it is wise to be informed about what is going on and no one can really be sure of the future, I just plan to pay close attention to things while we are there.
Where are you guys heading? we are probably going to spend the whole time in West End, its our introduction to diving, and we are doing our open water with Coconut Tree Divers. Can't wait.