DaleC
Contributor
Eurodog, Agreed.
Society is an imperfect science. Mistakes are made even when people have good intentions.
In the current issue that sparked so much debate most reasonable people stated they thought the degree of reaction was OTT. I think, when it started, the originators thought others might react as they would, they probably saw things progressing from their paradigm of conflict resolution. I base this belief partly because I know one of the principles involved somewhat and he isn't an A hole. I think (they) did not believe that others would react from such a different place. It was probably as shocking to them, as much as it was to anyone else, that the reactions were so extreme.
I hope, going forward, that many people involved will still want to stand up for what they believe but that they may alter the way they approach that.
To answer the question though, when someone feels social pressure is unacceptable they can take recourse. They can use the courts (we are not so litigious up here and that is rarely a real option for frivolous matters). Otherwise, they can organize their own social group within the group and counter the pressure. They can form their own social group outside the original group. They can stand by their convictions and hope that an appeal to the basic belief in "fairness" would sway the social group. A look at how churches form and splinter/reform is a good example of this.
The problem in the current issue is that, while the reaction was OTT, the antagonist projected such a poor image of himself within the public realm that little sympathy could really be generated for his POV. A lot of spin doctoring went on, post incident, but those who took the time to look at what was projected pre-incident felt repulsion rather than attraction. His ability to appeal to basic fairness was compromised, as was his ability to form counter pressure from within the group. Few people would want to align themselves with such extreme examples of negative imagery.
Groups do need to police themselves as to their use of peer pressure, and I bet that will be debated within the group in this case. But individuals also have to accept responsibility for their actions and the images they project in the public realm with a level of maturity that accepts the results either way.
As far as social norms go many groups have many norms. Whether you belong to PETA or the NRA, there are some things you cannot say, and some things you cannot do, if you want to belong. None of those have anything to do with legality perse.
It seems wrong on some level but that's the way it is. When I was young I was often an idealist and frustrated but as I have grown older I tend to operate from a position of "real politik", even if I don't always like it. I may pick my nose occasionally, but I've learned to do so in private; or not expect other people to want to shake my hand.
Society is an imperfect science. Mistakes are made even when people have good intentions.
In the current issue that sparked so much debate most reasonable people stated they thought the degree of reaction was OTT. I think, when it started, the originators thought others might react as they would, they probably saw things progressing from their paradigm of conflict resolution. I base this belief partly because I know one of the principles involved somewhat and he isn't an A hole. I think (they) did not believe that others would react from such a different place. It was probably as shocking to them, as much as it was to anyone else, that the reactions were so extreme.
I hope, going forward, that many people involved will still want to stand up for what they believe but that they may alter the way they approach that.
To answer the question though, when someone feels social pressure is unacceptable they can take recourse. They can use the courts (we are not so litigious up here and that is rarely a real option for frivolous matters). Otherwise, they can organize their own social group within the group and counter the pressure. They can form their own social group outside the original group. They can stand by their convictions and hope that an appeal to the basic belief in "fairness" would sway the social group. A look at how churches form and splinter/reform is a good example of this.
The problem in the current issue is that, while the reaction was OTT, the antagonist projected such a poor image of himself within the public realm that little sympathy could really be generated for his POV. A lot of spin doctoring went on, post incident, but those who took the time to look at what was projected pre-incident felt repulsion rather than attraction. His ability to appeal to basic fairness was compromised, as was his ability to form counter pressure from within the group. Few people would want to align themselves with such extreme examples of negative imagery.
Groups do need to police themselves as to their use of peer pressure, and I bet that will be debated within the group in this case. But individuals also have to accept responsibility for their actions and the images they project in the public realm with a level of maturity that accepts the results either way.
As far as social norms go many groups have many norms. Whether you belong to PETA or the NRA, there are some things you cannot say, and some things you cannot do, if you want to belong. None of those have anything to do with legality perse.
It seems wrong on some level but that's the way it is. When I was young I was often an idealist and frustrated but as I have grown older I tend to operate from a position of "real politik", even if I don't always like it. I may pick my nose occasionally, but I've learned to do so in private; or not expect other people to want to shake my hand.