The more you open the vent to release air, them more water will enter. It may be just a few drops, or it may be a few teaspoons, that really depends on the valve design and how it is used. I have had dives where not a drop of water comes out. If I remove a dump valve and look inside, I see moisture. This moisture did not come from the air in my tanks (which as you all know is very dry), it came from me venting air and allowing a tiny amount of water inside.
The most amount of water will enter if you use the large dump valves rather than the one on your inflator. The reason for this is simply the surface area you open with a dump valve is many times larger than what is opened at the end of your inflator hose. Secondly, if you open the valve, and have little to no air going out, it stands to reason that the water will have very little resistance in trying to get in. So in short, water in your BCD is normal, but can be reduced by not holding the valve open when the BCD is empty of air, and by using the large dump valves sparingly.