Ts, I dont really agree with what your saying here at all. There is a reason that the no deco limits are pounded into the heads of OW divers, while deco is purposely only lightly described. A new diver has literally dozens of things to worry about, the thought of even approaching the nodeco limits, let alone actually having to worry about making a deco stop should not even begin to cross their mind. telling a new diver that they will most likely be fine if they just relax and make the deco stops, and that "you don't turn into a pumpkin because you exceeded your no-deco limits." is sending an entirely false and probably dangerous message to a new diver who has absolutely no experience. Getting caught in a decompression situation is the same as a pilot who accidentally wanders into instrument rated conditions, for someone whos been well trained in IFR it should be a walk in the park, but for a new pilot who can only fly using visual flight rules it often ends in a death sentence. A deco dive to you or I may just be another day in the water, for a rookie diver whos just getting the hang of buoyancy control, let alone tech diving skills, it can often leads to a nice long painful chamber ride.
Arrgh! No. The equivalent of this in flying is having the pilot fly into a instruments only situation, and then having them go into a nose-down dive because "being on the ground is safer". Being on the sufrace is not always safer than being in the water at any given moment.
No, I've read a lot of Lynne's posts, and she is not encouraging anyone to plan any mandatory decompression-stop dives without training. When the #@$% hits the fan, though, and your computer starts giving you deco obligation, you are sure as heck better following it than shooting to the surface. And just so everyone is on the same page, exceeding any of the NDLs on the PADI RDP by five minutes or less would give very minimal decompression obligation. If you do not have enough gas to spend 10 minutes at 15feet, then you did not have enough gas to start off with.
If you screwed up and overstayed your bottom time, that means you made a mistake, and you have to correct that. It is better to deal with a decompression stop, than to deal with DCI, or a fast ascent to the surface.
PS. Another thing I would like to point out is that even if you have reached your NDL at 120', you can still ascend and have bottom time left at 20' or less. A common misconception is that when your body is 'full' at depth, that spending any more time underwater at any depth makes it worse. It doesn't. If you ran out of bottom time at 120', you would have less nitrogen loading by slowing ascending to 40' and continuing the dive for 20 minutes than by shooting straight to the surface (I am not RECOMMENDING either, just stating a fact). If you don't understand this, do a search on Decompression Theory and Tissue Compartments.