I was professional and pointed out their mistakes and omissions, and how they could improve their safety
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I went into Mr. Mom mode and gave them the riot act.
may have been why some of the response were given the way they were.
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I was professional and pointed out their mistakes and omissions, and how they could improve their safety
I went into Mr. Mom mode and gave them the riot act.
I'm not sure how to respond to the post and make it constructive, but I'm going to try.
New divers are all ready task loaded and you want to discuss this topic? Now? Why in the world? All this does is cause them to second guess their training and over think rather than react as they were instructed. A better conversation would have been the incrediable experience they were about to have compared to the muck they trained in.
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may have been why some of the response were given the way they were.
I'm kinda on the fence regarding your actions.
The captain is diving with them, it's his boat, so he's assumed responsibility for them.
I'm not sure how I would have reacted to another random diver who just joined the charter having this discussion with me. That's what the crew is there for, seems a bit out of place for you to address all of this beforehand with people you're not even buddying with or responsible for.
This definitely seems out of line to me. It also seems like you could be opening yourself up for liability because you're providing instruction to them, whether you're an instructor or not. They get out there, have a problem, drop their weights, rocket to the surface and embolize and suddenly you're sitting in front of a jury because you encouraged them to practice dropping weights pre dive.
Under the circumstances I think you over reacted. They're not under your care, it's not your place to read them the riot act. If there was no captain and crew, if they were buddying directly with you, or if circumstances were a bit different then I think your reaction might be justified.
It's a tough call. I've intervened with other divers before too, but in my case I was the only one around and the divers were obviously diving beyond their level (OW entering a cave). As you presented it, I can understand your frustration, but I think you went a bit too far with it.
Regarding me covering them practicing how to drop their weights...not only was it for them...but for me. If I have to rescue them, I want to know how their systems work.
Well, part of the problem was that captain, even when knowing that they were brand new, didn't cover any scuba basics with them other than "come up with 500psi" and follow me. Then after it happened, he stayed down another 45 minutes. When he did come up, his conversation was so gentle, that I'm not sure they got it. He basically reminded them to come up with air in their tanks. The mate\driver didn't address it at all during the 45 minutes we had alone with them after it happened.